2006-11-26 01:11:45 · 26 answers · asked by brookeeyze 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No. Why would they want to unless they are thinking about cheating.
2006-11-26 01:13:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Generally not appropriate it is not okay for married men to go to strip clubs. The money spent at such establishments would be better spent on the needs of the family, but then, it's really up to what their wives are comfortable with, will accept, or tolerate.
Additionally, the opportunity for, and temptation to become involved in extra marital affairs is always a possibility. Some married couples allow for such activities with no adverse impact on the relationship, while some will have a multitude of fights over the matter.
2006-11-26 01:21:11 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the long run, no matter what your wife says, going to a strip club isn't a good idea on any level. Sure, maybe the rare once in a blue moon cause all the guys are going and I'm a good guy and know how to behave myself. But if he's the right kind of guy, he married you and only has eyes for you. Want to keep him home? BE his stripper....
2006-11-26 01:28:52 · answer #3 · answered by bigwheeler19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think strip clubs are sleazy, no matter whether they are upscale or not. My husband has gone a few times until the night he came home from one, kissed me and then told me he tried to lick the goods. I've never felt comfortable with it since and have made it clear that if he wants to stay married he won't go to one. I know some couples that go together but I don't want to pay money to watch my husband drool over another woman.
2006-11-26 01:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by Joyce H 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
While its OK for men to go to strip clubs , Women cant handle the fact that you are looking at another woman with lust , not love in your eyes. They cant take the fact that another woman has the ability to make you horny. Its not about cheating its about stimulation of the mind women don't need to look at play girl mag but men NEED to look at playboy they need the visual stimulation and excitement that that gives them to get through the week or day if your hungry you eat if they are hungry for visual input they look at mag or go to a strip club the fact that they come home and want to rip your clothes off tells me that you aren't getting him that aroused in bed where he rips your clothes off every night. This has nothing to do with cheating , with being unfaitful. Just as a test take the thing you like to do the best every day , shopping , movies, watching tv , going out to dinner and for a week dont do it. Did you cheat did you finally give in to your inner feelings bet you did.
2006-11-26 02:12:34 · answer #5 · answered by cctucker75 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if they think this is the only way to stop them from cheating on thier other halves.. going to strip club is kind of like flirting... as longa s u dont take it too far its ok... and can help a marriage.. by aking the women so jealous.. that she tries all the things those ladies do...
2006-11-26 01:15:00 · answer #6 · answered by James A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It totally depends on the relationship and the man. If he is going for someone's batchelor party and he knows he is going home to his wife and not spending a bundle of money, then yeah it's ok.
If he is going all the time and spending a bunch of money and he has questionable ethics then NO it is SO NOT OK.
2006-11-26 01:15:33 · answer #7 · answered by celt_ain 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its Okay for married men so long as you think its okay for single men.
2006-11-26 02:11:17 · answer #8 · answered by Cdn_Superdave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it is . its not a whore house . its just to look , i see more when i go to the beach than i do there at the strip club .
2006-11-26 01:57:08 · answer #9 · answered by pickledaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were married i wouldnt mind if my husband went.its just the same as a group of women going to watch a male stripper.its just a bit of naughty fun.i would only be worried if my husband wanted to go constantly.now and again is fine.
2006-11-26 01:16:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
why not as long as they are faithful. everyone needs some entertainment...but only as long as there is mutual trust and caring in their marriage....like daddy said "Son now that you're married there ain't any problem reading the menu trouble starts when you begin ordering off of it" stop at reading and alls well in your world heck he's married not dead
2006-11-26 01:43:11 · answer #11 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋