To pay or not to pay?

Question

what would you
a) think ... and
b) do.....
if your future mother in law went around telling the lie that "people told her that you are a meth freak or that you do meth" and those things she said were in documents that are going to go before the courts in your futrure wifes upcoming custody / divorce hearings, and then you found out that that mother in law was going to move out of state??

Answer 1

You know what you did in your life..
If its fake.. then i would be taking them for slander as well.
to me its a play to freak you out.

If it was me.. i would make a personal point of letting her know she is a very cruel person and it will come back to her three fold.

Answer 2

If my future mother in law was going around saying such horrid lies about me, I'd think that I'd never be able to trust her. Not with me and definitely not with any of my kids. I'd also think (actually, I'd know) that she didn't want the marriage to work. But I wouldn't worry about her so-called "documents" because they are obviously fake or nonexistant. If anyone confronted me about her lies, I would just say, "So she says. But since when has a mother-in-law been known for her consideration for her child's chosen partner? There's a reason the letters in the word 'mother-in-law' can be rearranged to spell out 'woman hitler'. 'Nuff said."

As for what I would do if I found out the ol' battle axe was moving out of state? I'd help the old bat pack and then throw her a going away party with a huge banner that says, "Don't the door hit your @$$ on the way out!" and a soundtrack from the Wizard of Oz set to play, "Ding, Dong The Witch is Dead" over and over again. But then again, I've been told I'm way too nice to people who don't deserve it.