he ( whom i love) met me yesterday online and we talked there for 1hour and his words were showing that he is also in the same condition in which I am. He also wants me, miss me and still love me but we can’t get together. I don’t know what to say myself. what I have to say myself, either to be happy that he still love me like I do him or to grief on this that we can never meet each other… we can’t be together.
We are seprated 10months back but there is not a single moment when i didn't miss him. he is also in pain he also cries for me but his parents dont like me. and he cant hurt his mother. so he decided to left me forever but we both are failed to forget each other.
i am helpless... i dont know.
what i have to do to make myself out of this.
2006-11-26 00:42:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
sorry to say but i thnk destiny wants 2 sprt both of u
he said tht he likes his mthr so i thnk he cant leave his mothr for u
but he loves u tht is for sure
dont b tense start a new life with new energy fnd new good frnds
and someone who likes u and cares for u like him
just frgt him bcos nothing can b done bout it as his parents dont like u
u r unknowingly giving pains 2 othr round u bcos of uor conditon(maybe)
but if u love him dont cry or endure pain just be STRONG enough 2 tak 2 his parents and show thm tht u respect thm a lot
i thnk thngs will improve thm
if u have any othr problem regarding ths pls let me no as a FRIEND and i promise will try 2 hlp u in my best!!
all the best!!!!!
2006-11-26 00:55:57 · answer #1 · answered by sam_arbg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this can feel like you're never gonna get over him but you need to move on. Wait for him to contact you and pick yourself up off the floor. Don't make a romeo and Juliet out of it, look at your life decide on some goals (other than this relationship) and start working on them. If he wants you he'll contact you but you have to be strong, tell him that if he wants you he needs to be a man. Without knowing the full story its difficult to comment but a man needs to have his own mind not just do things to please his mother. People have parents who aren't keen on their partners all the time, you just need to work at it - try a different approach but this needs to be his suggestion not yours, let him stand on his own two feet for a change. If he doesn't you will have moved on and channeled your energy into other things you enjoy. Good luck x
2006-11-26 08:55:39 · answer #2 · answered by cinders 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is a no win situation. Talk to him and ask him again whether he can stand up against his parents wishes and marry u. If he says no then stay away from him though it might be painful....but time heals. If u continue to c him though u know there's no future....then u r heading for more pain. Believe me cos i've been there. Now im paying for not being strong enough to stay away from him (He chose to marry his parents' choice).
Good luck and hope he chooses u!!!
2006-11-26 10:19:49 · answer #3 · answered by garfield 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let go and start a new life. If he listens to his parents, imagine if you are married to him, with his parents interfering, I think its gonna be shitty for u. At the end of the day, u will want him and his family to love and accept u. If that's not gonna happen, get out of there. There will be dozens of man, in-laws that will love u.... Why discount yourself of better life? If he really can't forget u, miss u etc... he will be with you now... will he cares what his parents think ??? Love will conquer it all.... so tink again, is that love enough for u?
2006-11-26 09:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by The Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have patience. Be friends and keep in contact with him just to chat every once in awhile. Try to move on with your life. It obviously can't work out right now. If it's meant to be, things will work out, if not, there are more important things in your life. There's no reason you two cannot be friends. If it honestly kills you two that much, you could even try forgetting him for awhile so you can attempt to move on.
You seem young, so don't worry about this too much. There are other guys out there.
2006-11-26 09:01:06 · answer #5 · answered by obsdabeff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is so committed to his mother that he is unwilling to go against her wishes. there is nothing you can do but move on and find someone else and hopefully fall in love. God bless****
2006-11-26 08:48:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋