well i like this guy !! he plays the guitar and is very sweet and hes got a awsume personality but hes not that good looking !! hes very good freinds with me !! but thats the problem he even came to ask me for help to get one of my freinds to notice him !! he asked her out but she said no !! and now i really want him to know that i like him! i dont want to tell him on his face itl freak him out but what should i do to hint to him that i find him cute ?? !! i know it sounds dumb but lease help !!
2006-11-26 00:30:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
girls asking out boys is a MAJOR turn down at our school and i dont want to do it !! and every guy i like never even knows that i like him and everytime its the same story 'sob'!! i need help !
2006-11-26 00:32:07 · update #1
iv asked this question a million times on answers but i cant get myself to ask him out !! im just tooo scared hell say no !!!
bboooo hooo i dont know what to do !!
2006-11-26 00:39:20 · update #2
tell him what you just told the yahoo world
2006-11-26 00:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by strongchin1 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you don't take the chance, how will you know the answer? Listen. Who cares what other people think about girls asking guys out. If you are too scared just flirt a little and cherish the friendship you already have. Trust me, he will get the hint. Boys are not as clueless when it comes to relationships and love as us girls think. Just act friendlier, spend more time with him, compliment him, play with his hair, whatever... he'll either take the hint and he will back away (in this case, stop the flirting) or he will flirt here and there with you. Time will tell :)
2006-11-26 16:44:21 · answer #2 · answered by Astrid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. the easiest way is to write him a letter or leave him a really long message on his phone, but he may not like that approach.
you could always ask a friend to tell him, but that mehtod is never completely safe.
ideally, you would kiss him one evening and everything would go fromthere, but what if he refuses to kiss? then you get even more embarrassed.
don't take the soppy aproach, as in don't slip " yeah, but nobody has got eyes like you" into a casual conversation because that will seriously freak him out!
try telling him face to face sincerely! this is the best way in my experience, and he'll probably say yes. but don't worry if he declines, there's loads of other fish in the sea, and at least this way you don't keep false hopes.
the only way to get a yes out of him is to risk a no, and risk embarrassing yourself.
good luck girl!
2006-11-26 08:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by chocolate.smartie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet is to tell him that you think he's awesome, ask him if he wants to go somewhere with you and some friends. That way it doesn't feel so akward, if it goes well tell him that you like him. If he's into you, he'll probably say so, if not at least you know. That way you're not going to fall so deeply into him that it hurts you really bad. Looks shouldn't matter too much, but if looking at him disgusts you it's not going to work out. You have to be attracted to him at least a little bit. Hope this helps I found all this out the hard way.
2006-11-26 10:45:26 · answer #4 · answered by liz04ca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes obviously comfortable with you to have asked your help, try making an excuse that you two go out to cheer him up, if the moment doesnt come when your together that he realises whats going on, just say at the end i really enjoyed that we have to do it again sometime, this method may take ages because a lot of blokes just arent perceptive, when your out just tell him your glad he was turned down because now someone who really likes him can have a chance , hes bound to ask who gonna like me im a dork or something like that you just say me i do, then who in school is gonna know who asked who it will be between yous two , and you havent really asked him youve just given him the info he needs to ask you, but if he really like your friend hes not going to want to straight away
2006-11-26 08:41:15 · answer #5 · answered by 0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if it's a Major turn-down to ask the guy out then go with the flow....
However, If he came to you for help that indicates that he trusts you to some degree. Ask him how it's going.....Have conversation that will start a friendship. As he gets to know you he will see you as you saw him....for who you are. You are a wise young woman. Be his friend. Let him take it from there.
2006-11-26 08:38:24 · answer #6 · answered by Sunbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why you think asking him will freak him out. Just say, hey, I know you asked my friend out and she said no, would you want to go out with me sometime? All he can say is no. This is not the worst thing that could happen. If you don't tell him to his face, who do you think will do it for you? Just take a deep breath and take the plunge. Good luck.
2006-11-26 08:36:46 · answer #7 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are fading anyway whats on the in side is always better. take the first step invite him out and tell him how you feel, don't be shy go for it girl! Their not all super models.
If your to shy to ask him give him a smile and a wink and a note works too.
2006-11-26 08:36:06 · answer #8 · answered by Lara <:(((>< 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well, calm down first. dont ask him out, bad idea. but talk to him on AIM or call him up and be like so we've been friends forever, and i have to come to the conclusion that i am very interested in you. see what he says. if he says what you dont want him to say. DONT FREAK OUT. its not the end of the world.
good luck. hope i helped. :]
2006-11-26 11:01:58 · answer #9 · answered by yourrad_letsmakeout♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to him since the one he wanted turned her down that's her loss she blew it big time when she turned you down you're a hunk to me.( or whatever slang term this generation uses to describe a great guy.)
2006-11-26 08:36:10 · answer #10 · answered by Mary S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hijack him to a movie, then attack him in the dark...he'll get the hint! If you like him, what does it matter what he looks like? If you really want to be with him, Go for it!
2006-11-26 08:33:53 · answer #11 · answered by boots 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋