I need friends to go out with. How can i get them without comming across as a sad loser? As i have no social life atm just meeting people is'nt possible
2006-11-26 00:29:15 · 16 answers · asked by narcoguppy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I work 6 days a week til late so have lost the oppotunity to be out there meeting people
2006-11-26 00:35:26 · update #1
when you find out let me know!
2006-11-26 00:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess take note of what your interests are and go to places where you could meet similar people. At least then you have something to talk about. Maybe try joining interest groups on the net? Depends if your comfortable meeting people from the net. Other than that, meet the friends of people you already know, get a new job, go to the gym, etc etc. Mainly just get yourself active, feel good about yourself and work on your interests and/or conversation skills. Good luck :)
2006-11-26 00:33:25 · answer #2 · answered by BluLettice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be productive.
Meet people for a reason, not just for the sake of meeting them.
Join an organization.
Go to school.
Work.
There are many things when you can enrich not only your personal, but your interpersonal life as well.
What made you say that meeting people is impossible for you?
Are you grounded for a year?
Or are you in jail?
Given that you can't step out into the real world, BUT you have access to the internet, you can write a blog, contribute articles to online publications and welcome other people's comments. In this way, you can be heard--and you can meet other people as well, even just virtually.
2006-11-26 00:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a club that interests you and you will meet people like yourself, you should get in touch with you're local community centre or join a night school and you could be learning as well as meeting
2006-11-26 00:32:40 · answer #4 · answered by braveheart321 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a number of societies/businesses about that arrange social events.. from meals, parties, walking etc for all age groups and don't charge membership fees... but do charge for the events... one example my mate is a member of is Spice... they have a web site.. so you can look on there . Hope this helps
2006-11-26 00:33:22 · answer #5 · answered by Boring Old Fart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about getting a social life online... chat with people with similar interests... join message forums...
alternatively, (depending on your sex), you could join a gym or martial arts class or yoga class and get to know people...
i belong to a martial arts club and the instructors arrange nights out so that people can meet and chat...
2006-11-26 00:35:52 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Bebo 2. Facebox 3 MSN Messenger all of them Can let you make friends!
2006-11-26 00:43:30 · answer #7 · answered by Karl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join some kind of club, reading club, dancing, horse riding then make friends and then you can leave the boring club that you joined and go out with your new friends instead
2006-11-26 00:31:51 · answer #8 · answered by nick23647@btinternet.com 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just start it with a simple conversation. talk to people. smile. go to a simple resto.. look around and have fun.. just being you're self, thats the secret.people will go near to you.that the start to have friends
goodluck
2006-11-26 00:33:16 · answer #9 · answered by chantal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join some kind of club
2006-11-27 14:21:25 · answer #10 · answered by Jackie B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find people that like the same things as you do
2006-11-26 00:34:05 · answer #11 · answered by cindy d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋