2006-11-26 00:27:33 · 13 answers · asked by charleston chew 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
At times it has definitely suffered. My children are well worth all sacrifices that I have made and will have to make in the future. I wouldn't change it for the world. On the other hand a little more intimacy wouldn't hurt!
2006-11-26 00:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by lilmsmooody 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before my husband and I had our son we had sex all the time (three times a day sometimes). After our son was born it went down hill. Yes kids take a toll on your sex life but its all worth it. My son is the best thing that ever happened to me and the most important person in the world. My sex drive decreased and that is what makes it hard for us. I am the type of person that can live with it or with out it. My husband does get angry at me at times, but I put in over 100hrs of work in 2wks, clean house, cook supper, and at times he does help. So my advise is if you have children help do things with the children and around the house. That way your lady won't be so tired and she will feel like having sex. Hope this helped you. And always remember that children are a blessing from GOD.
2006-11-26 02:21:21 · answer #2 · answered by crystal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a child did make my sex life suffer at first because i was so tired. But i feel it was worth every bit oof it as i now have a beautiful child and do you know what? once the sleepless nights ended and she got into a routine i went for it hammer and tongs (had to make up for lost time) as far as i am concerned you can always get your sexdrive back but if you don't have a child because you are worried about losing the sex drive then you will regret it when you are older... our sexdrive may go in time but a child is for life....
2006-11-26 00:45:47 · answer #3 · answered by angelindisguise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is great, for sure. But that child is a totally different 'high'. What I'm saying is, I'm in the same boat with you buddy. But, before my baby girl, I would have said sex over children always. Now that shes in my life, I find ways to deal with the lake there of.
Trust me kids are great and your relationship will eventually get back on course.
2006-11-26 00:38:00 · answer #4 · answered by 6986isin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my kids and I am blessed with two healthy, happy, well behaved kids and wouldn't trade them in for anything in the world.
BUT... after I had the kids, the husband did NOTHING for them. I did everything, I worked, went to school, did the housework and lawn care, and if I were at school or work, he would get grandma to take the kids so he could work on model airplanes or play computer games. Since I did everything, and my kids were 18 months apart, so I was TIRED. Very tired. He wasn't gonna get any. IF he would have helped me with the kids, I would have been in the mood more often. I told him that many times, but he didn't want to put forth the effort.
As for my sexual needs, I can take care of that myself.
sorry, not trying to sound angry, just being honest.
2006-11-26 00:47:08 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without a sex life, I wouldn't of had children.
2006-11-26 00:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course children affect your sexlife... unless you are cheating on your wife/gf... :D
and if you are devoted to your kids, then YEP it is worth it...
my sexlife suffered greatly for the first 2 years or so... sleep deprivation and no spare time to get it together takes a toll... so does the affect on your diet...
get decent sleep, proper food, some dietary supplements, and HEY PRESTO!!! that is as long as your partner isn't suffering as well...
2006-11-26 00:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It takes a while to get back to normal, but believe me baby, it happens! 3 kids, sex all the time!
2006-11-26 00:33:42 · answer #8 · answered by Pardon Moi? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and it was worth it. Besides that, after having a child, I realized how overrated sex really is. lol
2006-11-26 00:34:12 · answer #9 · answered by kristalshyt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, after I had a kid my sex drive increased and me and my previous husband would put our son to bed and go at it. We woke up our child once but no biggy. =)
2006-11-26 00:35:04 · answer #10 · answered by ProudToBeWhite 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋