My family is hindu family. my culture is indian and i am staying in maharashtra. i have one sister and brother, both are depends on my income. but i have two houses in different cities. one is my village and one is in city (mumbai)
2006-11-25 23:35:30 · 17 answers · asked by naresh i 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dude I would dump her! Shes a Muslim. You need you a woman who is spiritually close to you in ideas!
2006-11-25 23:37:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Maybe your brother should start supporting himself and your sister find a good Hindu husband. Can't you arrange a marriage for her. Let her husband support her.
Talk about "bite the hand that feeds you" That is what they are doing.
Do not let it destroy your love marriage. Your brother and sister will not be with you on dark lonely nights but your wife will.
I would cut them off ...they hate you already so what do you have to loose.
Tell them to straighten up or they are out of your life forever and without your house and money.
You deserve to be happy and they don't care that they are making you unhappy. Love your woman and have lots of beautiful babies and teach them both religions.
Good luck to you. .
2006-11-26 10:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by onedot.darling 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have a lot of pressures.
if they hate you that is their emotion not yours.
One thing at a time. Take care of your brother and sister they are separate from your marital situation.
Allow me to say no your wife does not have to love you because she is muslim it is not encrypted in our relegion and yes they can be fiery little dragons, and some can be as sweet as honeysuckle.
Ask yourself how do I really feel about my wife. Do you care about her enough that you will sit down and talk with her?
Marriage is just not about the man being a work ox.
Marriage is of communication
Marriage is of not feeling ashamed to show weakness.
In conclusion keep a very good posture so that you can make it through those hard times.
2006-11-25 23:57:52 · answer #3 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are miserable, then try moving out of your neighbourhood or even change your city, if that is possible. Having a woman that belong to a different culture can also be difficult, unless you are both totally indifferent to the religion aspect.
2006-11-25 23:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what everyone thinks. You are supporting the family and you are the one that is bettering yourself. As for your wife, love her and everything will be fine. The only problem you may have is which religion will you follow and what will you teach your children. I am a Christian and I am married to a Jew, so I know what you are going through.
2006-11-25 23:45:33 · answer #5 · answered by Jack S. Buy more ammo! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey! I am a muslimah ,but what are you talking about? Polygamy???? You think any women include muslimah like the idea of polygamy??? No way!! Some of us rather get divorced! You think you men can be fair and make all your wives happy?? BIG BS. Sure we love the Christians if they are nice, so do we love our brother and sister muslims when they are nice. But if they are not ?? Guess what my answer will be.
2016-05-23 03:51:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to form a question out of this information. I'm not getting one out of anything. Why do you think everyone hates you? Is it because your wife is Muslim and you're Hindu? Do you siblings not get along with your wife? Do you all live in the same house? I just don't get it.
2006-11-25 23:40:50 · answer #7 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
look sometimes love doesn't choose a country or who you'll be ,what is important is the way you both fell for each other,because in the end ,everybody has always a lot to say ,but never help you.So go on with your live ,love your wife and be happy,if people want to accept your choice,good for them ,other wise show them the front door.
2006-11-25 23:42:07 · answer #8 · answered by realistic 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to let your family slowly get to know your wife, whatever her religion she is still a human with a personality, that they should be able to value once they get over their prejudices.
Good luck!
2006-11-25 23:50:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if your family dont understand your wife then thats their problem and im not quite sure about your siblings becuase i dont know their age. your wife is not angry like someone said i didnt get that but just remember that it doesnt matter what religion you are just whats in the inside! explain that to yoiur family!
2006-11-25 23:44:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
they don't hate you. they can't hate you because you are their son. they are just unhappy that you didn't fulfill their dream of marrying a girl of you religion, in other words you didn't marry a hindu. I think you should try to convince your parents about your love and happiness. It is very important and serious. Always be with your wife.
Hope it works out.
goodluck
2006-11-25 23:41:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋