2006-11-25 23:34:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
....I might not NEED one, but my life is a bit empty without one.
2006-12-02 06:00:47 · update #1
It sounds like you are trying too hard. Just be happy with yourself and your life and things will fall into place like they are supposed to
2006-11-25 23:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by foolnomore2games 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever hear of the concept of a "self fulfilling prophecy"? IF you accept the idea of never having a fulfilling relationship with a woman, you are essentially setting yourself up for that situation. Be open to love, go with the flow and let the relationship find you. But never give up. Repeat this mantra: "I am a good, loving, successful person with a lot of to give and deserve the same in return". Push away negative thoughts. And accept that you an have a fulfilling relationship, but it may not last for ever. Life is a journey, not a destination
(no I didn't read your profile before I answered your question so apparently we have some personal philosophies in common!)
2006-11-26 00:08:00 · answer #2 · answered by Dee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you mean by fulfilling. No one is capable of completing you and making everyday seem great. Even the best relationships take work and accepting the flaws of others and hoping they accept yours. Are you looking for the 'perfect' woman? She doesn't exist, and if she did she would be way too rich and popular to hang out with you. Focus on being the best version of you that you can be, that way when you do come across someone wonderful, they will think you are wonderful too. If all else fails, keep your standards low and your expectations high, and you'll never be disappointed.
2006-11-26 00:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by ruthie a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you chose to be alone for the rest of your life. Don't you know you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find the princess? That's how you know that you have the princess. So start kissing Prince there is much more world to explore out there. You sound like a good guy someone will scoop you up soon. Just stand your ground and don't settle for anything less.
2006-11-25 23:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by queenmaeve172000 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How important is it to you to have a happy life and children?
If it is, I suggest that you stop considering that.
You have had disappointments, and that is truely a part of life that will always be there.
Why not decide, instead, that you will do whatever it takes, and keep trying, until you find love?
It costs the same, and at the end is love, not bitterness.
Dr. David Burns "Intimate Connections" is a book that will help you find a loving woman, and it tells you specific things to do, and how to look, and act.
Why decide to fail life? Keep your dreams and they will keep you sane and alive!
Such a thought is depressed thinking - change it!
2006-11-25 23:47:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know women that are asking the same thing...i think we meet up with all the wrong ones for us or we are not patient enough...i feel like a child at times getting hurt over these losers that our out there these days...things has changed though and i do not know where to find a decent guy, trustworthy, loyal but yet not controlling...so all i can say is be patient and maybe he or she will come...
2006-11-25 23:44:08 · answer #6 · answered by sanangel 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Patience is needed. Stop rushing things the moment you relax and stop worrying it will come to you. Many people are singing the same song as you and that includes good women.
2006-11-25 23:38:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, though obviously it depends upon circumstances. Usually when you stop looking, someone may come your way. Be confident in who and what you are, and a mature woman will see your positive attributes.
2006-11-25 23:41:55 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you control your destiny
it is not something to be accepted,
unless you are completely passive and dont care to make things happen
dont give up;we all feel like copping out at times
stay positive!
2006-11-25 23:39:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
life is about choices.... i don't know you or anything, but if you continually have problems with women, (not taking up for all of them) maybe it's you. maybe you pick the wrong kind of women, like me. I pick the wrong type of men. try counseling see if that helps
2006-11-25 23:43:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋