2006-11-25 23:24:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am not talking about myself, but about a friend, no joint accounts and they have got prenupcial agreements...but she says she wanted that...
2006-11-25 23:38:59 · update #1
i'd look for a new husband
2006-11-25 23:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Should be no secrets in a marriage. My wife knows how much I have in the bank and still wants the simple things in life. If a man does not tell his wife these things then,,,
1.) He is greedy.
2.) He's hiding something
3.) What happens to the wife in a divorce?
You did not say if you have a job or are a housewife.
2006-11-25 23:27:27 · answer #2 · answered by bubbles_grandpa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..that relationship won't last long with that kind of trust! BUT, he's probably that way based on the fact that he doesn't know if his wife is a gold-digger, or the fact that if he makes more it gives her reason to spend more? Either way that kind of mistrust will eventually push them away from each other...becaus if he can't even trust her with his earnings..then i mean damn..how will he trust her at all? That's like he's WAITING for them to divorce. Stingy guy.
2006-11-26 00:13:04 · answer #3 · answered by Dennis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a control freak and selfish. Personally, I'd never marry anyone who didn't tell me everything about the finances. No pre-nup, no separate checking accounts, no hiding bills or stashing money.... marriage is a joint venture, and so is everything that goes with it.
2006-11-25 23:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by just_me3575 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he know how much you earn? What's he got to hide? Why doesn't he trust you to know; are you greedy and wasteful with his money? But then again if you have everything you need why do you need to know? Still, I think he's hiding something, how much you earn is not something you keep secret keep from your wife unless it's a lot and it's not legal!!!!
2006-11-25 23:36:51 · answer #5 · answered by SANDY T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should say ex-husband. If there is no trust there is no marriage. If she spends everything that he makes, then he should stash some away, but a couple should share and work out the money together.
2006-11-25 23:28:34 · answer #6 · answered by Jack S. Buy more ammo! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is the wife that has the problem. What woman in their right mind allows their husband to squirrel away $ without her getting a cut?
2006-11-25 23:26:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's wrong, you's are supposed to be partners in every sense of the word. what is he hiding by not telling you? do you do your taxes together? if so his yearly income would be on that. maybe he's not making as much money as you thought and he's embarrassed. if it worries you try looking for old check stubs. or check bank records if you have an account together.
2006-11-25 23:32:09 · answer #8 · answered by jdchick48 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why?
I'd also consider why is it so important to know.
Does she have everything she wants? Are the bills paid?
Food on the table?
Why is the money so important?
Best wishes
2006-11-26 00:24:19 · answer #9 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is clear that in such a relationship obviously there is no trust. However this may also occur for many reasons.
2006-11-25 23:29:18 · answer #10 · answered by Bobbie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he isnt much of a husband. He is supposed to be your partner! Knock him on his a s s!
2006-11-25 23:25:48 · answer #11 · answered by Pardon Moi? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋