My son that was born in August sadly passed away in September. And I now pregnant again.
2006-11-25 23:11:27 · 23 answers · asked by Kim 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
My son that was born in August was very healthy had a perfect birth weight and everything. He passed away from a strong case of annemonia that was found to late. It had nothing to do with me or my body. I am just very scared for my unborn child.
2006-11-25 23:22:42 · update #1
My BS detector just shot off the scale.
Use condoms!
2006-11-25 23:12:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 3⤋
Sorry for your loss. You must be going through a terrible time emotionally. There are some dangers of becoming pregnant so close to the birth of a child.
The shorter the birth interval, the greater the problems; babies conceived within six month of the birth of the first baby were 40 per cent more likely to be premature or undersized at birth. The researchers identified a number of reasons for this. These included nutritional deficiencies (not enough time for stores of nutrients to be replenished between pregnancies) and inadequate recovery of the reproductive organs (menstrual cycle not yet re-established and so on).
There may also be some problems as you are so young. I hope all goes well. Best of Luck!
2006-11-25 23:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
I believe things shall be simply best when you have a lady. For those who relatively think scared on this issue you must seek councelling they're going to help you realize what you feel, and support you to no longer consider so scared. The chances of boys being sexually abused are simply as high as with girls so its now not simply like it only happens to ladies. Your doing high-quality together with your boys right? Youll do great raising a lady if thats what you turn out to be with. I consider might be you just have some left over feelings of what happended to you that you just must resolve then you will suppose extra constructive about elevating a bit of lady, and if you happen to feel treatment can support you cope higher then do not forget it. Additionally try shopping the online at no cost on-line councelling, or boards/groups for humans who've been by means of your hindrance additionally they can support you learn how you can care for what your feeling/your fears. You need to don't forget that form of factor can occur to someone, and shouldnt fear it's extra prone to occur to a lady on account that it happened to you. Also being so concerned about this drawback now before the youngster is even right here indicates me that once it does get right here your going to do the whole lot that you can to defend it, and make certain she is secure if its a lady. There is not any purpose to get so protective that you just maintain her locked in the condominium except she is grown, but its just right to feel that protective. You are going to probibly turn out to be having an awfully shut relationship along with her should you study to talk about matters like this along with her so she is aware of the way to stay nontoxic if she has to when shes at the proper age where she will comprehend that there are exact matters humans can do to hurt her, and to understand how to not allow it to happen, or if it came just about going down run.. That you would be able to begin teaching her from the age of 4, and up that specific matters are dangerous, and as she gets older get reasonably extra particular when you consider that she is going to comprehend extra, and extra. Your going to be great really. Just find any one that you could talk to about your disorders so your extra in manage not the wrong way round, and you're going to see your self more relaxed about all of this.
2016-08-09 23:34:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a very dangerous situation you are in. Becoming pregnant so soon after giving birth is very stressful to your body. Many things could go wrong including you bleeding out during child birth.
I would like to say that since you are 15 someone should have spoken to you about birth control especially since you lost the other baby. If they did speak to you and you refused then you are a fool
2006-11-25 23:22:31 · answer #4 · answered by bunny 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Where are your parents ?
Obviously your're too young to carry babies try abstaining from sex and if you cant do that start using contraceptives and try to wait until you cross 18 to have another child.... I do hope the baby you're pregnant with is born healthy and is afforded a good life but as I said before you probably need to slow down or stop when it comes to your thoughts of parenting .
2006-11-25 23:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by Blaque Inque 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Please stop having sex. You are way too young to get pregnant. Your body is telling you this with the babies you are producing. Sometimes with very young mothers there are problems with birth defects. Please get help. See a doctor. You need to know to eat properly get vitamins. Please see if you can get some schooling so you can make something of yourself. You need to provide for you and your baby. You are not going to like what I say but I know from experience. Some girls your age are what I call "Cinderellas". They are looking to get pregnant because they think that prince charming will marry them and provide them with a moat and castle. The reality is that sometimes Prince Charming is Peter Pan in disguise. He will never grow up. The end of the story is not "happily ever after." Especially when he wants nothing to do with the baby. You stay home with the baby and miss the Proms, graduations, etc. You have to work two jobs to make ends meet which means there is no time for college to make things better for yourself. I am just providing a scenario. Perhaps it is different for you, but I want you to think long and hard to see what you are doing to yourself. Take care of you.
2006-11-25 23:19:48 · answer #6 · answered by queenmaeve172000 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
I think you have gone through A rough time and sorry for your loss. You should enjoy your childhood a little while longer before becoming a parent. Think about the consequences of having a child so young. Im not saying that you wont love thew child, but it possible wont have as many chances in life as it should. Consider what kind of impact its going to have in your life and most importantly the childs.
Good Luck
2006-11-25 23:17:03 · answer #7 · answered by brunelscooby 4 · 2⤊ 4⤋
You need to go to school and get a job find a nice man that cares enough about you to have a life dont throw your life away how do you plan to suppport you and a baby you are not mature enough to have sex let alone another person
2006-11-25 23:26:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
How possible is that? Don't you find it strange that you're having a baby at your age? Sorry but you can't be a role model... It just absurd and weird.
2006-11-26 02:38:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I agree TOTALLY with thepenismightierthanthesword! There seems to be alot of BS going on here.
2006-11-25 23:30:50 · answer #10 · answered by grahamma 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Sorry for your loss.
To answer your question though.... No, It's not safe for you or your unborn child.......
But why the concern now? Obviously you can't care that much, if you went & did it again.
Chances are you'll probably miscarry again.
Best of luck in your future endevors.
2006-11-25 23:18:53 · answer #11 · answered by PeanutsMama 2 · 0⤊ 5⤋