when ever i talked to my friends abt how premarriage relations and sex in it...is a sign of the cultural degradation we are facing i india,...(cuz ppl are having sex in dese relations and den breaking up either delibrately or otherwise...finding yet another relation ..n den another...n finaly getting married to some other person) all of them said that
its been happening all the time in d past, and today, more incedences are coming up because of the hipe media is giving to it....
it had happened before..is happening now..and will ahppen tomorrow too...
if this is the case, should we b spending out time money n effort in convincing the yougsters that pre marriage relationships are bad...and should not b encouraged?
im not talking abt love relationship...im talking abt the boyfriend girlfrind concept! were ppl are interested mainly in sex n not love
2006-11-25 23:06:08 · 10 answers · asked by niranjnn 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
niranjan, hi!
i don't want to be rude, but it does sound like you're a little narrow-minded when it comes to sex...
i want to make a few analogies before i come to what i'm trying to say... a generation earlier, they believed that non-veg food should be eaten only rarely and that it's bad for health... we know better today. they also didn't believe that women should go to work, and that white people were Gods, that caste system was correct and that women are not equal to men.
today we know things are different. our ancestors believed that love was bad, and that only arranged marriages work...
similarly, you need to understand that sex is a bodily function. there is no more meaning to the idea that you should only have sex with one's life partner... what happens if your partner is not compatible with you? what if you never enjoy sex again? you only have one life... you won't have another chance.
sex is a function like eating or drinking. everyone masturbates when they can't find a partner. when you do have a partner, enjoy it to the fullest.
there's nothing wrong with people having sex before marriage. it's perfectly normal, and is not a "danger" that needs to be curbed...
do open your eyes to the new world around you. culture is the person inside you... it's not the acting you do in front of society and family. be for real.
live your life fully. you only have one chance. just make sure you don't hurt anyone else in the process...
enjoy!
2006-11-25 23:20:56 · answer #1 · answered by bangaloresizzler 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think of you recognize that this is incorrect on the grounds which you're hesitant to do it. Doubt propose do not. while you're uncertain a pair of outrage do not do it. i'm in basic terms 2 years older than you and that i'm able to assert that I choose I had waited till I have been given married or till I met the guy I planned to marry. . Society teaches us that intercourse is effective as long as you employ protection and are particular. Your mom and dad taught you premaritial intercourse is incorrect. I agree mutually with your mom and dad. A virgin is an exceptionally complicated difficulty to discover. Dicuss this in intensity mutually with your boyfriend. (Like greater advantageous than a pair of times) If he's "the only", he will understand the way important it somewhat is and issues will artwork out effective. If he desires to bypass away you over not having intercourse, believe me he's not the only you pick to supply purity away to. ultimate desires and be risk-free with despite you pick.
2016-10-13 03:30:11 · answer #2 · answered by cutburth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I completely disagree with Mr.Sizzler ,even shitting is a bodily process that necessarily doesn't mean that u r going to **** in the mid of the road ,everything has a way to be carried out .Adding to it to bring to your information that yes non veg food has certain disadvantages over vegetarian food,which is thoroughly proved by research by those countries and those cultures who use to be staunch supports of these points .What is the major cause of suffering all over the world,be it terrorist strikes,wars or corrupt governments -the main cause appears to be lack of ethics and principles .Life has different stages and different roles to be played in each stage if one will prepone or postpone his role in the stage of life the final movie will be disastrous -as it will be clearly reflected in the movie of one's life and the performance of its characters .I have lived in western societies and clearly felt that the negative externalities of free sex and drugs have made them more disastrous than any other third world societies which are suffering due to bad management of its existing resources .Even people in western world have recognised it and finding different ways to tackle the existing problems to make their society free of these externalities .In that situation a suggestion that -sex should be practised freely no matter wat a persons situation is really the one which leads to devastation .
2006-11-26 00:17:51 · answer #3 · answered by Shivendra S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do agree with you and I dont agree sex is same as eating and drinking as my previous friend mentioned. Well it was a part of our culture to taught ppl what is good and what is not...now again it depends solely on our conscience and judgement to make our decision. And it makes us man separates us from other animals who only go with their instincts.
I believe we should start a campaign and distribute condoms to only ppl who want pre-mariatal sex. Well this will embarass them a bit (If they have conscience :-) )
Jay gandhigiri....
2006-11-25 23:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by Boleto Gandhigiri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The world should be spending their time, money, and effort into convincing youngsters that education is the most important thing that one can ever recieve. And yes I do think that teaching the kids to wait for sex is just as important.
2006-11-25 23:11:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is now spreading like wildfire. Schools should be more open to counsel the youth regarding these things. Instead of them experimenting on it.
2006-11-25 23:17:37 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
good question ?
have a pleasing day and night - jindajind !
2006-11-26 07:39:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its depend on you how would u want live or loyel to your futur partner
means if you free to do any thing you do. but if you not so please don't do this its may be hurt you.
2006-11-25 23:15:29 · answer #8 · answered by vesu 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i agree with u
2006-11-26 22:53:37 · answer #9 · answered by pinky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not advisable morallyand phyeically
2006-11-25 23:10:25 · answer #10 · answered by lion4roaring 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋