He is very masculine and not very demonstrative in his affections. Also he likes to watch lesbian foot fetish porn. He says he likes to look at something he can never have but I think he may be just scared to tell me the truth.
2006-11-25 21:45:32 · 21 answers · asked by Mikey75224 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If your boyfriend enjoys watching lesbians, he is bi-sexual. Don't worry about it, this is how he is made up genetically, try to accept him for what he is. He is still with you so let him explore his desires openly and you wont lose him. If you try and nag him, he will keep it from you, 1. not to hurt you and 2. so he doesn't get nagged. So be open and ask him to be too.
Hope that helps :)
2006-11-25 21:55:53 · answer #1 · answered by baroni2486 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it to me!
A complete gay guy would not be interested in girl porn at all unless there were naked men in it. And to look at something he can never have? That's weird! Me being interested in seeing naked women, and me being a straight, married woman, would really alert my husband that I wasn't completely straight. Heck, maybe he's just bi! Perhaps you could invite a female over and see how it goes in a threesome like that? If you're willing, of course, or go to a strip club of females and ask someone privately if they'd give your guy a lap dance (without him knowing) and then see how he reacts.
Just a couple suggestions is all.
2006-11-25 21:50:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very feminine and I like to watch gay male porn, and I'm definitely 100% NOT straight.
That said, I'm pretty sure the last girl I dated (for 4 freakin' years!) was straight. She wasn't interested in me at all, and constantly talked about her future husband. It was a terrible situation, to say the least.
Talk to your boyfriend about your concerns rather than just getting yourself worked up about it.
2006-11-26 05:50:09 · answer #3 · answered by lillielil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant think of any straight man who would have a boyfriend. when i tell people i'm gay they usually dont believe me at first. i act very straight (except i do believe everyday is a day to dress up. i spend way too much money on clothes...) if your boyfriend is anything like me you have nothing to worry about. i know im gay but i'll still make out with my girlfriends and i think i'd even be up for experimenting with a girl. it still doesnt change the fact that im gay.
goodluck!
2006-11-26 00:22:49 · answer #4 · answered by Porter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are satisfied and happy why rock the boat. Besides the porn thing has there been anything else? Is he still attracted to guys? Are you insecure about the relationship?
2006-11-25 21:51:45 · answer #5 · answered by Psychic Sk8r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's taken it in the butt for you he's gay, or at the very least bi with a preference to men. No straight man would ever take it in the butt just for the sake of keeping his lies secret.
2006-11-25 21:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is moderate chance that you're boyfriend might be a bisexual.. a person who loves to explore and discover something new may try out different approach in looking for intimate pleasure, they may find something which is more pleasurable and could trigger them to become a different person.
2006-11-25 21:52:17 · answer #7 · answered by kevinjohn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be straight your right every straight lad loves do watch girl on girl action i have idea get a really good looking girl round and watch how he looks at her i'm sure you tell whether he is flirting
i don't whether this wil work be try it and good luck
2006-11-25 21:55:02 · answer #8 · answered by xkelx_xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sexual preference is not just gay/straight/bi - its all on a sliding scale. and at different times in your life you are higher or lower on the scale. google the kinsey scale.
and porn is just porn and thats it, nothing more. and in my opinion, porn makes a man more likely to stay faithful.
2006-11-25 21:54:11 · answer #9 · answered by rinea 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try to "out" him... There's something deeply disturbing about what a "closet straight" would say about the world we live in.
2006-11-25 21:54:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋