My greatest fear is tat.., if she didn't like it.. then mayb i'l lose a good friend... To b more particular, She knows me as an open book.. mayb likes me fr being tat way.. plz help me...
2006-11-25 20:56:28 · 13 answers · asked by tar_vf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
lestin buddy she is ur good friend and u r asking us here????
go go go man go and tell her that u do love her.
our advice will not help u to get ur love its u who should take a step forward and say it no matter whatever happens
remember she is ur good friend and she will stay this always
2006-11-26 01:10:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does this friend of yours know how you feel? Have you ever dated before? If so, why did you break up? Okay, so if you've never dated and haven't professed your feelings to her, it's probably not a good idea to spring this on her. It will just scare her and things will be too awkward from then on. That would ruin a friendship. If I were you, I would definitely tell her how you feel and date for awhile. But you have to be open to the possibility that she may only want you as a friend once that happens, it's hard to recover from. Honestly I could answer this one better if I knew more about the relationship between the two of you and her relationships with others.
2006-11-26 05:02:01 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dear,
I had also gone through the same problem.
But i think u should propose her directly.
b'coz: 1) if u don't, then when r u going to propose her- at old age?
also u will not BLAME URSELF, "after marriage" that "if i would proposed her at that time........?"
2) dont wory about continuity of such friendship ( i. e. one way)
3) if she also loves u, then it will be a good relationship.
4) further, DO NOT define ur relationship as "FRIENDSHIP", it is one way love
5) and also dont be get feard of "she will say NO to me"
6) if she says NO, then also its ok. U will be free from the tension facing right now.
7) So its better to ask her right now.
GET UP AND ASK HER AS SOON AS U READ MY ANSWER...............................ITS NOW OR NEVER.
BEST OF LUCK.
mail me what she says..........ok.......i'm waiting.
2006-11-26 09:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by Karan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you wanna do is let her know theres no pressure but youre curious about taking the relationship further. If you two are good friends and she doesnt want then she shouldnt fuss over it. And if she does well,that speaks for it itself
2006-11-26 05:02:48 · answer #4 · answered by Eric J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be she also thinking in the same way , as you are thinking, no need to fear ask her directly once, if she likes you she accept your proposal.
2006-11-27 06:43:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u go 2 her & clearly tell her ur feelings, add tht if she doesnt feels d same then u promise tht u will never force or talk abt this topic & tht u can still b gud frnds
tell her as soon as possible or if sme1 else tell ur frndship may surely break
& if she is ready thank god
gudluck
2006-11-26 05:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by Muskaan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u make propose her. if her response is not good than just divert ur proposal as a joke. otherwise u can lose ur friend. and if u feel that she is giving u response than just carry on....
2006-11-26 14:34:43 · answer #7 · answered by ujjaval s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends if you love her a lot that you want to be with her for the rest of your life. she'll always be a good friend no matter what...ask her if she likes you more than a friend first before you ask her to marry you. its going to be diffcult, but just talk to her then ask her. GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-26 05:02:56 · answer #8 · answered by Katie ♥'s Rob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She knows you as an open book but she doesn't know that you love her. When you come to know that she doesn't love you, you try to know that she is a closed book!
2006-11-26 16:09:49 · answer #9 · answered by SRIRANGAM G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her in a joking manner about it n see wat she replies if its positive then may b u can go further into it n if not den may b u cannot go further with d same feeling it wud help u not 2 loose her n also 2 know her response towards u
2006-11-26 05:04:58 · answer #10 · answered by jaspriya m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋