how long can you exist in "free spirit" mode,when i dont like a job i leave during my lunch break and never go back,i cheat on all my boyfriends or leave them in the middle of the night without telling them,drink/etc,break too many chairs/tables,dont pay my bills/fines/am wicked and wild.How long can the self destructive life last ?
2006-11-25 20:09:16 · 7 answers · asked by rusalka 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Can this be that this person is looking for a way to destroy their own life quickly? Well consequences are things that happen to us as a result of something we have done. But the funny thing is the consequence is immediate. Your memory is the first place the consequence lodges. Therefore not allowing you to forget and the haunting of the those thoughts promotes repressions, and then the urge to drink to forget, and then to break things is a release of frustrations because you cant leave that ghost of consequence behind. Do you remember the old saying "You can run but you just cant hide". That hiding part is hiding from yourself because of the consequences and the inability to face them and the truth about oneself.
2006-11-25 20:29:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
consequences can either be negative or positive, depending on the actions that one takes. I lived your so called "free spirit" life for many years.
Consequences: I got pregnant early, with no clue how to be a parent; lost my son. currently living pay check to pay check with nothing to show for it; credit is in the dumper, most of my family wont even acknowledge I exist. As far as relationships go, I have none. I am now a 35 year old woman trying to clean up my act, and learning how to take actions that will bring me positive consequences, and stay away from the negative ones
2006-11-26 07:06:07 · answer #2 · answered by lstntfnd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was like this, always left the boyfriends, cheated on them, didn't pay the bills, clean the house blah blah blah, I found I was never happy, always wanting what I didn't have.....
Some time in my early 30's I woke up to myself and said enough is enough, I have worked hard payed all my debts, am grateful for what I got, and I love myself.....(though at times this is hard)
I have learned that if you stop wanting what you don't have and can't afford to have, you should be happy with what you got, there are people out there worse off then you.
2006-11-26 04:48:28 · answer #3 · answered by ozi_nut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I spoke to one of your ex-boyfriends. He said the tests came back positive, go and get a check-up. He also thanked you for leaving in the middle of the night, as you never did look good in the morning.
2006-11-26 04:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by Labsci 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I may say that it is not self destructive life but a really happy one and that is just plain YOU. There are many people who live a long life but an empty one...
2006-11-26 04:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
poor health,early death,jail time...will catch up w/u sooner than u think
2006-11-26 04:45:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you grow-up or go to prison or died whatever happens first.
2006-11-26 04:16:54 · answer #7 · answered by steve p 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋