Since last 15 year twice a time in a month i must do the mustarbation, i do watch sex movies then start mustarbation. i know its really very bad but i cant stop it. even i losing my health as well like i m 25 rigth now but look like 20 year old. Please help me can i avoid to do this **** job and tell me what are advantages and disadvantages of it.
2006-11-25 19:19:45 · 21 answers · asked by zahid u 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
If you were masturbating twice a day I could see the problem… But twice a month, seems absolutely normal to me even if you are in a permanent relationship. As I say to my wife, there is nothing better than a successful masturbation.
2006-11-25 19:44:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I recomending finding a book every mans battle.
If you were even 2 years younger Id recomend every young mans battle, as it talks more about masturbation isues and how to stop.
also check out
xxxchurch.com
instal the softwarethere (no virus or anything I promice) and then find a person you know that can hold you acountable, then if you go to bad sites or anything, it will send that person a notice on there email, to keep you acountable more. throw out the movies too.
There is a condition (as much as people think theres not) that too much porn and masturbation, can cause you not to be able to have s ex with a women nearly as well. beacuse your mind will be trained to those things and it can cause ed in some people.
Not to mention it is a sin.
But it is one that can be overcome, you got to fight it though, the first month is the hardest, though being a guy, youll never fully be able to train your eyes and your mind, you can fight those thought when the do come up, try watching another movie (g rated if you have to) or go outside for a walk (even at night) but you can fight it,
Also if your not in a church, I encourage you to go to one, pastors and people in churches are more then willing to help anyone (of any belief) to overcome things in there lives. and know your not perfect, but God can help you anyway, he wants to.
Rock on. and good for you. To many people see it as acceptable beacuse every guy has tried it at one point, but just beacuse its accepted dosent make it right, it gives people the wrong veiw of the oppisite sex and makes the person just lusting after flesh, not loving the person and expressing it the way God ment us to only through marrage. I want to see a day when males finaly grow up and become men....I know 14 year olds stronger and more mature then most 40 year olds in that area. Seriously.
2006-11-25 19:33:23 · answer #2 · answered by robertt223 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously there are no advantages, you feel horrible. You are reaching out for help and probably feel so little.
Stop watching movies with sex scenes, turn you mind to something else when you think of it and when you feel like you need to, get up and go in another room or get a snack or leave the house. Prayer helps too, God is much more powerful than we.
2006-11-25 19:23:49 · answer #3 · answered by fan_wan :-) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is the word: Masturbation is necessary and healthy - especially if one is not married or have a sexual relationship. It is a good thing and twice a month is not often enough. Stop this silly worrrying. You are making your health better by Masturbating but do it more often, please. Sex movies without masturbating would be silly. Sex movies now and then is best. Regular movies as often as possible. But if you get an erection, masturbate as long as you have the privacy. Go for it!
2006-11-25 20:50:13 · answer #4 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation will not make you loose your health. There is nothing wrong with it. If you want to stop, exercise self control.
2006-11-25 19:26:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Masturbation is great why stop? Unless there is a mix up here witch there might be sounds like everything is ok.
2006-11-25 19:22:32 · answer #6 · answered by SummerRain Girl 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Cut off your hands
2016-03-12 23:18:05 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Pardner------------First off, you need to find a dictionary and look up the proper spelling of the word. l firmly believe that you will find both hands and both eyes so busy you wont have time to DO THAT WHICH FASCINATES YOU! Or, secondly, you can grab the nearest sharp knife and CUTSHERDICKOFF.
2006-11-25 19:29:07 · answer #8 · answered by Scottyboy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the only way to stop is 1.) have it cut off or 2.) death
2006-11-26 07:45:13 · answer #9 · answered by sevenandahalf7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong do that. It does not harm you since you only do it twice every month,
2006-11-25 20:14:00 · answer #10 · answered by zodiaccyber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋