well i mean i show clevage tight jeans ect...
im a very outgoing person and to show my body like my belly or me with a bra on.....doesn't bother me....
"got it flaunt it" bad or no?
2006-11-25 19:15:09 · 21 answers · asked by Baby K 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
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but i have high confidence i make good grades!and i knoe my responsibilities!
but like i am proud of my body im not flashing ppl no but like me in a bakini around a big group doesn't bother me i do have clevage wear tight but comfortable clothes.....
got it flaunt it or no?
2006-11-25 19:40:10 · update #1
Flaunting it like YOU is bad. You realize you come off as just another cheap sl*t without a brain, right? One of those girls who says, "Like, yesterday, like... like... like..."
Get my point?
There's a difference between confidence and "flaunting it." That is for you to discern... I think that if you put forth half as much effort into your schoolwork, grammar, and knowledge acquirement as you do learning how to put on make-up, you'd be pretty damn successful in life.
2006-11-25 19:20:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm 14. I have mixed feelings about "If you got it, flaunt it." Cuz you gotta know by now, that strangers who see you are quick to judge and a little too tight or a little too much cleavage instantly translates to "$lutty" in anybody's mind.
It's good that you're confident and you want to show yourself off, but trust me, if you go overboard (eg low cut or small top, tight jeans, heaps of makeup... etc) then you will just look like a ho.
What's wrong with you just being outgoing? My personal opinion is that some cleavage (not heaps) and tight, or skinny, jeans are fine at 14, but you shouldn't be aiming to look any older what you are, because even "flaunting it" a little bit makes you look a lot older. So don't try to do so on purpose.
Just be aware that amongst many people, in their minds you could be dressing inappropriately. Leave a bit to the imagination. We are both still young with the rest of our lives ahead of us.
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2006-11-26 04:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by Astrid 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you got it flaunt it! But remember that how you look to other people is how they will think you are. So if your dressing like a ho, they're going to think your a ho. Also you're at the age when old men are going to start hitting on you. The more cleavage you show, the more it makes the grandpa's drool. Its discusting but true. Most boys are attracted to girls who dress slutty, but they usually don't date them for long. Try to always look like the girl that the boy would want to introduce to mom. Well groomed and classy will alittle bit of trend and alittle bit of belly OR cleavage is great. Oh, and I don't know what it is with girls out there now a days, but take a look in a full lenght mirror before you go out when your wearing jeans and a belly shirt. If your jeans are cutting into your hips, you need to get a bigger pair. I've seen so many girls wearing jeans that are 3 sizes too small and all it does is make them look fat!
2006-11-26 05:29:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh wow ok. I'm 15 and I can see where ur coming from. First, u shouldn't pose questions like this on the net, it's alot of creepers out there that would love to hear something like this. Second of all, I see no problem in u flaunting a little bit. Just like u said, "u got it flaunt it" Right? But then I would also consider what other ppl especially girls would say about me. Ur coming to a point in ur life where girls are quick to call u a slut, hoe, etc.
2006-11-26 03:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by q 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sure flaunt it. I mean, if the message you are trying to send is that you have no dignity or self respect and that you only feel good about yourself if you are showing off your goodies for every stranger to oogle. Do you really want people to think of you no further than your clevage and belly? Don't you want to be taken seriously? Don't you think you're worth more than that? My personal belief is that the girls who feel they need to show skin to get attention are lacking in confidence. Lack of confidence makes one seem desperate and unattractive. The attractive girls are the ones who come across as confident and sophisticated. They know they have it but they don't feel the need to flaunt it.
2006-11-26 03:26:23 · answer #5 · answered by Amelia 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You're a little girl, and flaunting "what you got" is definitely wrong. Where's your parents? You should NOT be wearing tight jeans or showing your cleavage. Have you ever heard of rapists and child molesters? Maybe you should look those words up because you are inviting them. You are a child, and you should act as such. No matter how pretty or popular you are, that doesn't mean it's ok to be a skank.
2006-11-26 03:17:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I heard the newest trend was flaunting good spelling.
I think many people would be worried about how young you are - you're a child, you shouldn't be showing off so much skin. Older men probably think you're older than you are - I hope you don't get involved with an older crowd, for your own safety. Remember, you're only a kid once, enjoy every moment of it - adult hood isn't that great lol
2006-11-26 07:50:17 · answer #7 · answered by Cookie On My Mind 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"If you got it flaunt it" is for 21 year olds hun . Just ask yourself ."Would I wear this in front of my parents" if the answer is no or i don't know then the answer is no don't flaunt it unless you want to come off as a fourteen year old s l u t .
2006-11-26 15:17:37 · answer #8 · answered by Lizzie . ™ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
jo is the pervert dont listen to him or in future life your be called a bore a not a risk taker and have everything shut down there is nothing to worry about take a 16 yr old guys advice and my bro 14 cuz we all say be a skank not a tramp they are 2 differant words your pretty u can look like anyway and ppl wont think your scruffy so go ahead and be a skank not a boaring tramp covred up like u got a illness or something or u get 1
2006-11-26 04:05:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Pet all I can say is be careful of the weirdos/paedephiles (spelling sorry) Its good to be confident and love your body. But love yourself and dont be a tart in the process.
2006-11-26 04:50:44 · answer #10 · answered by lividuva 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋