ok here is the story my and my buddie was watching a movie and we were sitting on the bed just watching it and odd of a sudden we started wresling and stuff like that and dont FREAK OUT ok
he kissed me and im a guy too and i am soo freaked out buy this i dont know what to do... should i stop hanging out with him or what?.... my sister even saw the thing happen right after he did that he just went home and then he touched my chest i didnt think of him as being gay or anything... so WHAT SHOULD I DO??
2006-11-25 18:55:38 · 15 answers · asked by Exco12 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
What should you do? Well, here's the thing. He crossed a line that he may not have thought was there. There is the possablitity that since he kissed you, he thought that was what you wanted. You did not indicate whether you liked this attention or not... but either way, talking to your friend about what happened is the best way to go. I do not mean walking up to him in public... make sure you are in a private (although not so intimate) setting. If you are not gay let him know. Depending on how you feel about gay people will determine how you will ultimately feel if he comes out to you. I would think friendship trumps all else... but he did kiss you and if it made you uncomfortable, well, he needs to know that. He may be alone and that act was one of two things. A way of showing you affection and desire or a way to let you know he feels different from everyone else.
Talk to him, don't just let this fade as if it didn't happen. His actions indicate that he needs you as a friend more than ever. So, time to put your friendship to the test and hear him out.
Good luck
2006-11-25 19:41:18 · answer #1 · answered by Whatev' Yo' 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what you *should* do is talk to him about it and how it kinda bothered you.
But that's a very hard thing for most 'normal' guys to do, so here's option b: pretend it didn't happen, and if he starts something like that again tell him "p*** off that's not funny/cool."
If he is gay, this will be when he *hopefully* takes the first step to opening up about it, and then you can talk about it and find out if you can stay friends without him coming on to you.
If he's not, then he's just goofing around trying to mess with you and he should get the hint that he's crossed a line. If he doesn't at that point, he's a bad friend and it's time to stop hanging out with him.
2006-11-26 03:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by angiekaos 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dude he kissed you, big flippin deal. If you don't want to pursue a romantic relationship with him then just make sure that he knows this. Whether or not he's gay is irrelevant, you were his friend before you knew why would you stop being now? He's the same person either way.
2006-11-26 03:14:28 · answer #3 · answered by Rageling 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hi Exoc, wish i knew your age,and how long you have been friends,but wow that would have shocked just about anyone,If he was your friend he may need one about now and very confused himself, so don't abandon him but ask him in private what happened and that your not gay but if he is you are cool with it (if you are ),and that if he needs someone to talk to you will be there for him..that would really be a good start at ur age (guessing a teen ) on how to really be a good friend..When you get older you will know how hard it is to really find good friends ok..good luck hun Bye Deb
2006-11-26 03:07:56 · answer #4 · answered by deb s 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
wow.he may have kissed you to get you off of him,,and remain friends,,I would not freak out or judge him I have wrestled with friends before and they kissed me just to see what I would do and I would say yucky you sucky!!It was kinda like ok I won,or something like that,,,,,,,,anyway time will tell,,,peace!!
2006-11-26 03:32:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u r straight plz make him realize it but if he forces u do have sex with him only once and warn him that dont repeat it again BUT if u r gay no problem just go ahead and have fun
go my man dont let me down
and do reply me about what happened
trust me
2006-11-26 03:31:35 · answer #6 · answered by Brad M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should talk to your friend about it. If you aren't gay, then tell him. You have to make sure you aren't misleading him and it would be wrong if you are.
If he doesn't listen to you, tell family and friends and let him know you aren't interested.
2006-11-26 03:17:35 · answer #7 · answered by mcneill_35 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh wow, get tha **** over it!!! you need to stay friends! Just talk to him about it and stay friends with him, its not that big of a deal, **** kiss him back!
2006-11-26 04:04:51 · answer #8 · answered by T R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's a homosexual.
If you are not, tell him honestly. But he's still your friend after all.
2006-11-26 03:00:55 · answer #9 · answered by cally cally 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything...He kissed you. He didn't hit you or molest you or in any way attack you...Maybe he IS gay...so what? If he's your friend let him be your friend for who he is --not who you want him to be.
2006-11-26 02:58:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋