I masturbate 7-12 times a day, it takes me 1-2 minutes to get a orgasm, is masturbating that much good or bad?

Answer 1

That much masturbation is quite excessive as well as obsessive behavior which can be physically, psychologically and emotionally damaging. Why?

Physically, you can damage blood vessels within your penis and/or your urethra causing you burning when you urinate which could lead to a UTI. FYI - after the first few orgasms, very little ejaculate will be produced causing the 'dry heaves' which will leave your penis engorged and aching in pain... a symptom of over stimulation. Also, over self-stimulation will eventually lead to desensitization from your own and even outside touch.

Psychologically, it can be symptomatic of depression which usually manifests itself in some sort of addictive behavior... 7-12 times a day is addictive... no argument there. The fact that you come to orgasm so quickly is not really a factor, but it could become a mental block when you have sexual contact with another person... and could lead to frustration or anxiety if they are not doing things exactly as you have conditioned yourself. Also, like any addiction, you will begin to amp up your sexual thoughts to become more and more perverse with that much masturbatory activity... you need to stay grounded and draw lines as to how far you want your fantasies to go... that is difficult when stimulating yourself on an average of almost every other hour of the day.

Emotionally, you will become detached from true physical affection and real physical love... it will diminish any sort of chances you will have at a good strong emotionally bonding relationship. It could also become so much of a crutch it could get in the way of your self-confidence when trying to perform sexually with your partner. Also, it being an addiction, you will become dependent upon masturbation at times you feel you are not getting enough out of your relationship and should your partner find out about your addiction, it could devastate your future with them... as they will feel less than satisfying to you. Excessive masturbation usually accompanies ones lesser ability to physically/sexually attract others as it will become a barrier between you and potential dates... essentially, excessive masturbation supplants your self-confidence and can lead to all sorts of emotional problems, especially... guilt and shame.

Any normal female... or male even would say you are using masturbation far too often and creating IT to eventually be the focal point of your life replacing a healthy social life with good strong relationships. ADVICE: Back off the whack off to once or twice a day at most... you might even try every other day... if you can. Masturbation is normal and nothing to be ashamed of or feel guilty about... WHEN used in moderation and bi all means... don't be in such a rush... 1-2 minutes is fine in a shower, but not all the time. Don't be afraid to be varied in your approach, use some restraint, be patient, take your time to truly get to know your body and what makes it and you tick. Fully explore the endless different self-pleasuring options or types of touching or caressing yourself, different positions even with your eyes open or closed, try using a mirror... that will help you accept yourself and your body. You might explore deep breathing during it... that will enhance your orgasms tremendously and the satisfaction will last much longer, so you will feel less of a need of such frequency. The way you make love to yourself says a lot about how you will with your lover... a quick orgasm should not always be the immediate goal... I'm sure it wouldn't be with your lover, right? Again, there is NO SHAME in loving YOURSELF... we all do it... it is how we become connected with ourselves... and eventually, others, but do not cheapen the experience in excessive rapid redundancy. Remember, once something you do has control over you, it has become an addiction... a habit... and habitual behavior is dangerous... in this case to your mind, body and spirit. Is that what you really want?

Answer 2

I'm glad that you asked, I think I can help. Ever heard of something called "over masturbation"??? Well it is very real. Look it up on the web. That's what you are doing, over doing it. It can cause lots of problems for men, such as. erectile dis-function, hair lose, lower back pain, and fatigue. You said that it only takes you 1-2 minutes to blow your wad, well that's another symptom. I don't mean to scare you. I just want to help. I hope that I did. LOOK IT UP ON THE INTERNET. Good luck. I'm not suggesting that you stop whacking it altogether, but keep your jack off sessions down to 2-3 times a week. Do what I do. Masturbate until you are about to have an orgasm then STOP!. Doesn't sound like much fun, but it has its benefits. It will help you overcome premature ejaculation. good luck. Feel free to e-mail me.

Answer 3

It depends upon whether or not you reasonably have time to do it a dozen times without skipping other important things you do daily. Your body will tell you when it has had enough each day. No, it will not fall off or wear out. Some guys like to throw a football many times a day; you like to throw something else. As do about a billion males in this world.

Answer 4

How do you find the time to masturbate 12 times a day?

There's nothing wrong with jerking off - UNLESS it interferes with your daily activities - which in your case I bet it does!

Twice or three times a day should be enough!

Answer 5

Benefits
It is held in many mental health circles that masturbation can relieve depression and lead to a higher sense of self-worth (Hurlbert & Whittaker, 1991). Masturbation can also be particularly useful in relationships where one partner wants more sex than the other — in which case masturbation provides a balancing effect and thus a more harmonious relationship.

On July 16, 2003, an Australian research team led by Graham Giles of The Cancer Council published a medical study [2] which concluded that frequent masturbation by males may help prevent the development of prostate cancer. The study also indicated that this would be more helpful than ejaculation through sexual intercourse because intercourse can transmit diseases that may increase the risk of cancer instead.

Masturbation is also seen as a sexual technique that protects individuals from the risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases such as AIDS. Support for such a view, and for making it part of the American sex education curriculum led to the dismissal of US Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders during the Clinton administration.

Some people actually consider masturbation as a cardiovascular workout.[11] And while doctors have no proof of this actually being true, those suffering from cardiovascular disorders (particularly those recovering from myocardial infarction, or heart attacks) should resume physical activity (including sexual intercourse and masturbation) gradually and with the frequency and rigor in which their physical status will allow. Some doctors will advise those recovering from heart attacks to resume sexual activity (solitary or with a partner) when one is able to climb two flights of stairs without experiencing shortness of breath or chest pain.


[edit] Risks
A study has shown that a test group which only had intercourse had, as a whole, lower blood pressure in stressful situations than those who had intercourse but also had masturbated for one or more days (Brody, 2006).

Masturbation involving both a man and a woman can result in pregnancy only if semen contacts the vulva. Masturbation with a partner can also theoretically result in transmission of sexually transmitted disease by contact with bodily fluids, so this should be avoided with a partner whose disease status is uncertain.

Objects inserted into the vagina or anus should be clean and of a kind that will not scratch or break. Care should be taken not to fully insert anything into the anus — any object used should have a flared or flanged base; otherwise retrieval can require a visit to the emergency room. Modern dildos and anal plugs are designed with this feature.

A man whose penis has suffered a blunt trauma or injury during intercourse may rarely sustain a penile fracture[12], or come later in life to suffer from Peyronie's disease[13]. Phimosis is "a contracted foreskin (that) may cause trouble by hurting when an attempt is made to pull the foreskin back".[14] In these cases, any energetic manipulation of the penis can be problematic.

Lawrence I. Sank (1998) speculated that men masturbating prone (i.e. lying face downward) could be responsible for sexual problems including anorgasmia and erectile dysfunction, as observed in four men he examined. He coined the term traumatic masturbatory syndrome to describe this theory. As of 2006 there has been no follow-up research and the idea is not familiar or widely-held within the medical community. It thus should not be credited unless further research is published and accepted.

Some sources, however, continue to give credence to the idea. One sex therapist (Margolies, 1994) condemned masturbation by rubbing against a pillow or mattress and Lipsith et al (2003) suggest that masturbation could play a part in male psychogenic sexual dysfunction (MPSD), citing Sank as their authority.

Answer 6

DAYUM...At that pace you'll pull it off before you go blind. Maybe you should try going outside and getting some fresh air. A girlfriend might be a answer to your problems also. But, if you J/O that much I guess you don't have time for a girlfriend.

Answer 7

if you cut down the number of times you jack off and stretch out the time between jack off sessions you will last longer!

Answer 8

Thats kinda a lot,wat do u think about or watch

Answer 9

Leaves precious little time for breathing,I should imagine.

Answer 10

yes its nice my dear believe me.
so do u masturbate alone or with some one
u r gay or straight plz tell me