I've been with my bf much longer than some of my friends who are getting engaged. My bf taked about getting married before not so much now, but he still calls me his fiance to others, even though no ring no date and no real real REAL talk. Whats his deal? What is he waiting on, we already act like we are married live together,buy things together, we even have a joint bank account, nice funiture we brought together, got our dog together,I don't understand!
2006-11-25 18:17:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't worry.Sometimes, it just take some men to face up to marriage seriously.
2006-11-25 18:20:21 · answer #1 · answered by RoxieC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been dating the same girl for 8 years and love her with all my heart and she thinks the same way. I do not make a lot of money and see no point in getting married and not being able to support her so I am waiting until I can.
2006-11-26 02:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by rbrm799 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you're making decisions you will be sorry for, like having gotten in so deep that there's no need for marriage, buying things together, joing bank account, furniture bought together and owning a pet together. You've just sealed the deal that no marriage is required. Sounds like his word for marriage is "engaged/fiancee".
You need some quiet time for serious conversation with your significant other, tell him how you feel, come to a solution, or kick him to the curb.
2006-11-26 02:24:16 · answer #3 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you are like a lot of girls on here who find themselves in similar circumstances. What I don't understand is why you don't know why the guys don't want to get married! You have given him everything he wants and needs - he has no REASON to get married to you, as wonderful as you may be. You have put yourself in this situation, and have to deal with things as they are.
2006-11-26 08:13:17 · answer #4 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your b/f needs a little push.i think it is time for you to bring up the subject and find out what his feelings are on the subject,as you are now ,you are going nowhere..Good luck
2006-11-26 02:21:54 · answer #5 · answered by slickcut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never push a guy into the idea of marriage, it will just make him run a mile.
2006-11-26 04:17:42 · answer #6 · answered by Female O ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is the two months salary may be a long time for him to save up.
2006-11-26 02:23:18 · answer #7 · answered by khanofali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why get married when the benefits of marriage seem to already be in place.
2006-11-26 02:31:02 · answer #8 · answered by ckgene 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I good way to start is to talk with him about it. If your as close a couple as you say then you should be able to discuss it with him.
2006-11-26 02:20:18 · answer #9 · answered by discmiss1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you get the milk for free, honey, why buy the cow!
2006-11-26 02:44:20 · answer #10 · answered by Viola Shumski 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋