I HATE IT WHEN HE FLIRTS WITH ME AND TELLS ME PRIVATE THINGS THEY DO IN BED, HE MAKES ME FEEL CREEPY BUT I DONT WANT TO HURT MY SISTERS FEELINGS SHOULD I JUST TRY TO NOT BE AROUND HIM?
2006-11-25 18:11:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you must tell her everything he does or says to you!!! if you do not tell her, he may ruin her future by committing the same mistake again and again. if that happens(most probably it wld) your sister's life wld be ruined. think about it: if you were in your sister's shoes, wld you like your boyfriend flirting with your sister and telling her what both of you do in bed? im sure you dont. pls tell your sister. it saves the both of you!
2006-11-25 18:57:25 · answer #1 · answered by mapgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would only tell your sister as a last resort. First, I would make it very clear to him that his behavior and sexual conversation is not welcome, and if he continues you will tell your sister. Telling her may only make things strained between the two of you. She may want so badly to believe her boyfriend wouldn't betray her that she blames you. Avoiding him may be a temporary fix, after all he is just her boyfriend. If the relationship turns serious, you owe it to tell her. If he's hitting on you just imagine what he's doing with other women
2006-11-26 02:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by summertime 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister is not going to want to hear this, but she needs to. She needs to be aware that her b/f is a creep. You can tell her some of the milder things he says they do in bed so she will not think you are making it up. She will probably tell you you are making it up but she will know the truth in her own mind.
2006-11-26 02:17:40 · answer #3 · answered by Barb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep, I'd try to stay away from him first to see how it goes. If he doesnt come near you anymore, I'd just let the issue go. Sister doesn't need to know that.
But if that doesn't work, I'd have a real conversation with your sister. She doesn't need this kinda guy around her anyway. Hurt now or later.
2006-11-26 02:16:55 · answer #4 · answered by Mumbling Girl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should tell her. But be prepared for her to blame you in some way. Sisters can be like that.
2006-11-26 02:17:42 · answer #5 · answered by KayGeeTX 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. this is a serious matter. you should tell her so then your sister can have a talk with her perverted boyfriend. at first she might deny it and won't believe you but you have to keep trying until she does believe you and does something about it.
2006-11-26 02:49:48 · answer #6 · answered by sugar n' spice 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and tell her before that he uses you both and after that he leaves you like a toilet paper. Stop reading it and go ahead to tell her. Come on don't waste your time.
2006-11-26 02:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by Abrar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sister....PLEASE!!!! He is a freakin' creep!!! Says Sarina Logan!!! And me...Then go up to him...and knee the "SHHEESSSHH" out of him...tell him to go drop off the planet!!!
2006-11-26 02:24:21 · answer #8 · answered by Chell 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell ur sister to dump that bf
he is a creep
2006-11-26 07:05:45 · answer #9 · answered by Kush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her.He sounds like a real creep! Wouldn't you want to know if it was you!
2006-11-26 02:13:20 · answer #10 · answered by madmom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋