k, heres the case, me and my bf only talk on i.m. cuz he moved away, :( and for some reason or another we havent talked on the phone, sooo.... anyway, we kinda act like just friends. i wanna break up with him because there is another guy that i might like a little bit and i wanna break up with my bf (even tho he would never find out) before the other guy starts to like me and then we might get to know eachother a bit more and so on...
so my question is how should i break up with my bf? we always have a good time talking but again, we act like 2 friends, and im scared if i break up with him that i will loose a great friendship. so what should i do you? not break up with him or break up with him, if so how?i really dont want to loose his friendship cuz he is great, i like him sometimes but sometimes i like as just a friend.
i really dont wanna hurt his feelings is there any way that i could break up with him without doing that?
thanks in advance for your answers!
~so very confuzed
2006-11-25 18:06:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Hon, you're very young. Your boyfriend, as much as you care about him, doesn't live anywhere near you, now.
He may be mad about it at first, but when he gets older, he'll remember what happened, and understand why you did what you did. And, besides, who's to say that he hasn't found someone that he's interested in, as well?
Talk to him, girl, and tell him that you would rather just be friends. Tell him that you cannot take a long-distance relationship, and that it's making you crazy. Tell him you want to stay friends.
Good luck, hun. Let us know how it works out.
2006-11-26 01:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by <3 The Pest <3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definately break up with him. You shouldn't live a lie to keep a friendship. Girls often have problems with this type of thing. Sometimes you need to lose a friendship to do what is right for yourself. Stop thinking so maternally. It is not appropriate for you to place a friends feelings before your own. That type of protective behavior should be reserved for children when you have them.
2006-11-25 18:10:06 · answer #2 · answered by brooklyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you do like him. But tell him that for you guys to be truly going out, that you would have to be near each other. Don't bring up the other guy. Just say, "hey its been great, I'm sorry that things turned out as they did. I would still like to keep in touch though." Then end it. He was obviously attracted to you, which means that he probably loves you, and if he loves you, then he will do what makes you happy. Good luck.
2006-11-25 18:12:14 · answer #3 · answered by TheSilverBeetles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do no longer you attempt doing stuff that would not revolve around boys? Have a woman day and flow get your hair/nails accomplished, and flow see a girly action picture. Or stay homestead, call each and all the ladies folk over and have a good previous formed sleep over. Do each and each others hair, makeup, watch girly video clips and consume ice cream. from time to time its as much as the ladies folk to assist one yet another heal. Getting yet another dating good away is a foul theory.
2016-10-17 13:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about being blunt and just saying: I'm sorry, but this long-distance relationship isn't working out. I need someone that I can be with and spend time with. It's too hard trying to keep our relationship going when we never get to see each other. I'm sorry. Good luck, best wishes, and caviar dreams.
2006-11-25 18:09:42 · answer #5 · answered by cardinalfanusa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok think about it would you want to be i.m ing someone or holding someone??? honey let him go and make your move on the one you can touch if your heart says so. but in the end it's all up 2 u.
2006-11-25 18:13:27 · answer #6 · answered by just lil ol' me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him. Tell him that you think that this long-distance relationship isn't working that you'd like be good friends instead. Hopefully he will understand.
2006-11-25 18:13:54 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what you say: (THIS IS SO UNMASCULANT, BUT I HAVE 6 SISTERS, I KNOW THE DRILL)
Hey, need 2 tlk. I need more than im, sorry. :-( miss u much, but we're young and need u as my bff. want, need u 2 b happy, sure there's some1 you've got ur eye on. u cool?
2006-11-25 18:14:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont bs the boy, tell him straight up, you dont wanna hurt his feelings more than it has to
2006-11-26 03:55:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like middle school bullshit.
2006-11-25 18:20:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋