my friend kal and i we are real close and i feel like i have ALOT of feelings for him, and well he is gay . and he kissed me a few days ago , and well i liked it and i kissed him back
2006-11-25 17:37:19 · 19 answers · asked by Casper 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well maybe you where just curious....i don't think anything can be worng with being a little curious
2006-11-25 18:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by luckycena54 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't let anyone tell you "you'll grow out of it." If you feel like you're in love with this boy, maybe you are gay, or bi. Could you fall in love with women as well?
But if you are gay, it's completely fine. Don't listen to people that say it isn't. Everyone is different.
2006-11-25 17:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by UMRmathmajor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like women as well as this friend? If you really don't think you're gay, you may actually be bi. I knew someone from school who discovered they weren't totally gay or straight, but in fact bisexual. Just something to think about. Good luck with it.
2006-11-25 17:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by *Balanced*Sweetheart*Always* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all depending on your age, many adolescent guys have shared a "gay" moment...it does not necessarily mean you're gay it means you're experimenting with sexual desires, etc. if you feel that you may be gay find a trusted friend to confide in and then contact PFLAG (they're very helpful)
2006-11-25 17:41:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant make up ur mind for u but i think ur gay cuz i was best friends with this girl for a whole year (she was gay) and one day she kissed me..i kissed her back cuz i was curous and i liked her too..but AS soon as we were done i knew right then that i wasnt gay cuz i didnt enjoy it. Shes beautiful, a great kisser but that feeling wasnt there. But since u liked it and kissed him back then yea ur probably gay..i love gay guys : )
2006-11-25 17:41:43 · answer #5 · answered by Sweetheart88 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You sound curious. If you liked it, try going a little further and see how you like it after that. Nothing wrong with it if you are gay
2006-11-25 18:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you attracted to men or just curious? It's ok to be curious. As for being gay, that's a lifelong realization you have to come up with on your own.
2006-11-25 17:40:58 · answer #7 · answered by A Blonde Belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're giving me wood just talking about the kiss. Did you get wood? Then you know the answer. Enjoy, be who YOU want to be.
2006-11-25 21:04:53 · answer #8 · answered by Psychic Sk8r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're as young as you sound, I'd say do whatever feels right. Experimentation is nothing to be afraid of. Just don't let it ruin your friendship.
2006-11-25 17:42:32 · answer #9 · answered by wab0027 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're older than 15 it's more than a phase.
2006-11-25 17:57:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's probably the feelings for him overtaking you and making you think that, you too are gay.
I may be wrong. I'm not, so I can't say if you are or aren't.
2006-11-25 17:40:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋