Not only does my fiancee have cirrhosis of the liver (genetically, no hepetitis or alcoholism), I have been having a lot of abdominal spasms lately. I am 7 months pregnant, TRULY depressed and completely stressed out by all of this, and I work a full 12 hour job as a manager of a large portion of my company. For the past 2 days I have been having sudden cramps/spasms in my lower stomach. We've been to the doctors numerous times about my fiancee, who is so weak and frail right now... I haven't brought up how I've been feeling lately. Yeah, I know, stupid idea... but HONESTLY, what the hell would you do???? My fiancee is gravely ill and yeah, I'm pregnant, but I can't do this without him! OMG, I'm crying and in pain right now and with all I have been doing and keeping up for the past several months, I can't even deal with what could be wrong with ME now! This is my first pregnancy and I am REALLY naive, but I'm dealing with the love of my life right now, my needs are second... right?
2006-11-25 17:11:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Yeah, and I'm sorry if I sound stupid and foolish, but you see what I'm going through! I can't think straight at all and my emotions are tearing me apart! PLEASE, what do I do? I can't function.... I've never been this disoriented and confused, everything usually works and has some sort of system for me, I don't want either of my babies to die...
2006-11-25 17:13:03 · update #1
ok first off i know its hard but you have to calm down. the cramping and such will cause you to go into labor. Im sorry about your fiance and will pray he gets better. go to your dr and tell him all that is go8ing on matbe he/she can help
2006-11-25 17:36:20 · answer #1 · answered by karinjorinandxandersmom 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound neither stupid nor foolish. You sound like a dear person under a lot of stress in need of help.
1. You need to see the doctor for your cramps/spasms.
2. You need to have someone willing to come along side and help you walk through this difficult season in your life. Be comforted in knowing life is a journey. It does not remain the same and after the night, the sun rises. After the rain, the sun comes forth.
3. Pray for God's help to see you through. He holds the whole world in His hands and He is there for you.
I wish you and your babies well and I wish the love of your life to pull through this time of medical difficulty.
2006-11-26 01:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by lindakflowers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are in pain and having cramps means you need to get to the doc ASAP and get checked out. The most important thing right now is your baby so get off of the computer and head straight to urgent care or ER and get the pain and cramps checked out.
2006-11-26 01:15:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really should see a doctor, it might be early labor and
having a premie is something you might have to consider. I know how concerned you are about your fiancee but you might
lose your baby or even worse you yourself might be in danger, who will care for both of them? Please go to ER right now let a doctor examine you, you might be adivsed to go home and stay in bed so you better notify, if you have any relatives, to be stand-by. Good luck.
2006-11-26 01:21:14 · answer #4 · answered by Josephine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never been pregnant but you should relax and take things a step at a time hope this helps calm you down.
2006-11-26 01:31:27 · answer #5 · answered by instant msg_me:) 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOu are causing serious dammage to your baby with that stress. you should stop worrying , liver is the most well achieved procedure for implants, so he wont die.
2006-11-26 01:23:04 · answer #6 · answered by iidibitizi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋