How do u overcome envy?

Question

And how do u get that self-confidence?

Answer 1

Think of the downside to the thing/person you are envious of, and compare that with all the good things you have in life.

Try to move forward, think positively and make the best out of everything you have.

Answer 2

self confidence comes from doing accomplishments and then patting yourself on the back for getting there. It starts with setting goals. If you want what someone else has then figure out what exactly it is you like, set up a plan for your own life in that direction, and go for it. Usually it starts with a lot of education and experience. Sometimes it comes from people passing down money or position within a family, but you can accomplish that level as well thru education and good breaks. Get yourself out there to meet the right people. Join organizations, and invest of your time and money (at the appropriate times in your life, of course).

Answer 3

It takes a tremendous amount of self confidence. That's it. End of answer.

Answer 4

Easy. Know that you are better.

I always know that I am better and I am proud to always have this better-than-thou attitude even though it might turn off some weak people.

Answer 5

Buy something better for yourself ! :P

Seriousl though, as was stated above, self-confidence is key.

Answer 6

Count your blessings.
Think about what you have and what you are ,
instead of what you don't have or are not.
Make mental notes , since you are aware of it, and look back at it, and notice how your perception changes.

ps. be careful what you wish for , you may get it.

Answer 7

i think you should just show your bad side of you back to the person and they will relize that your not that soft.