i already had my eyes checked. Is it time for me to start packing before its full blown nightmare?
2006-11-25 16:43:37 · 27 answers · asked by ill take it straight with no ice 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no, but its grounds for revulsion
2006-11-25 16:45:06 · answer #1 · answered by mickey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no, please don't make that an issue for divorce. Do you love your wife? That's the first question you must ask yourself. Hopefully you love her in many other ways besides how she looks. Maybe your wife needs to have a reason to lose weight or to want to look good. Women can become too comfortable once in a marriage. Bring some romance into your marrigage. Bring her flowers. Compliment her and tell her all the good things you like about her. Plan a romantic get-a-way and buy her a pretty negligee. This might give her some motivation to make herself look more feminine and it will give her a reminder that you still look at her in romantic ways. Women forget these things when they've been married for awhile. Give it try and see how it works. Enjoy each other the way you did when you were courting her. She just needs to be reminded and encouraged, not insulted and discouraged. You can do it! Have fun on your get-away.
2006-11-25 19:59:27 · answer #2 · answered by Kyra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, in this day and age, you could divorce her for watching Rosie O'donnell. Probably not the right thing to say, but if I were in your shoes, I'd be running for the door after I locked the fridge!
2006-11-25 16:47:40 · answer #3 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! Maybe there's a reason she looks the way she does. It could be medical like depression or it could just be she feels ugly so she figures why not personify it. I think this might be lost on you but I hope you give this to her. If you already are getting in a mind set to leave due to her physical appearance then there's soemthing wrong with your marriage outside of sexual appeal or appearance. Your wife needs to be encouraged and she deserves respect regardless of her size. If you can't do that, then she'll never lose weight or feel confident in herself.
Good Luck with your problem, and give my regards to your poor wife.
2006-11-25 16:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by espressoaddict22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're shallow enough to dump your wife over something so insignifacant and petty as appearance ... she really shouldn't have given you the time of day while you were DATING.
I hate to break it to you, but every single person on the planet goes through physical changes as they age.
Good luck ever keeping a relationship if this is your view on love.
2006-11-25 16:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by Imperfect 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so there Shallow Hal. The only grounds for divorce are unfaithfulness. Unless of course you guys just can't agree on anything except divorcing.
2006-11-25 16:45:46 · answer #6 · answered by liquidjesus23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you look like John Goodman? I am sure you are not the dream boat she first fell in love with and if looks is the only reason you got married, stay single, women deserve better.
2006-11-25 17:27:39 · answer #7 · answered by Rodney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I miss understand...Do you mean to say gay? Or just getting big over weight? If is for the first reason I recommend to check with a legal one an Attorney and if is for gaining weight then not...And good luck!!!
2006-11-25 16:47:47 · answer #8 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a disgusting thought! Of course Rosie is also worse than she appears, (isn't that scary!)
2006-11-25 16:48:05 · answer #9 · answered by dano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give me Rosie's money. If she does not act like Rosie, keep her.
2006-11-25 16:56:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would it be grounds for HER if YOU started looking and acting like Richard Simmons?
2006-11-25 16:45:18 · answer #11 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋