this guy at this job i started at ,makes me buss his table competely , i am suppose to be a hotsess and he is a server and the only time iam supposed buss a table if we are busy and we were busy so i was bussing his table but then we were dead and he wanted me to clean his table while he was sitting on his *** talking to other co- workers-i confronted him about this along with another co-worker- he is a nice guy but i felt along with the other co worker that he was taking advantage of us ,so i confronted him, i told him i dont mine doing my job as long as i am doing only what i am suppose to do
2006-11-25 16:38:53 · 8 answers · asked by clara m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
good for you. don't do anyone elses work if it can't benefit you in the long run. by doing his work you look like a push over and not someone that should be promoted in a company. as far as feeling guilty child please, forget that lame. he can be mad as much as he wants; just as long as he's cleaning his tables while he's steaming
2006-11-25 16:43:58 · answer #1 · answered by desiree60411 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you should not feel guilty for confronting him with the truth.You are right ,its ok to help whrn it is busy,but I would only do what I was suppose to do,and its ok to help out sometimes ,but he don,t need to be sitting down talking while you are doing his job..All you did was stand up for yourself,you told him how you felt,stick to your gus girl,but there is no need to be mad,now that you said your piece,he has a good understanding of hoe you feel.
2006-11-26 00:46:14 · answer #2 · answered by slickcut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him nicely to get off his own lazy butt and do his own work. The guy is disrespecting you by trying to make you do his work. Follow the supervisor's instructions for when you are supposed to bus tables and when not. Let the bum bus his own.
2006-11-26 00:42:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't feel guilty and he will eventually get over being mad. He should be glad you complained to him rather than the manager. You did the right thing. No worries.
2006-11-26 00:42:11 · answer #4 · answered by espressoaddict22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. He is a nice lazy guy or feels that you should do for him what he is unwilling to do for self. Either way you did the right thing
2006-11-26 00:43:21 · answer #5 · answered by Danthony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his fingers are not broke...tell him to go do his work himself. Yeah buddy I would be more mad, not guilty. Do you get his tips? NO so stop doing it say your busy even when you are not. I wish you luck.
2006-11-26 00:43:27 · answer #6 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope hes a free loader. I would of told him too.
2006-11-26 00:41:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you are not his mommy
2006-11-26 02:35:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋