Ok here it goes. Theres this girl that is my friend, and i didnt know she was a lesbian untill I went over her house. It was over the weekend, and went i went over too her house...she was uh...playing with herself, and she asked me " Do you want to join me?" And so i ran out the door. Know she wont leave me alone! What should i do? I know this is an odd quetion, but i cant tell my mom.
2006-11-25 16:33:30 · 21 answers · asked by Echo♠ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What see did was not cool... Lesbian, gay, guy or girl. Let's say it was a guy and he was a friend... do you thing that it would be nice of him to pull it out and ask you to join him? There's a sensitivty to these things and a way to approach them. Be honest about the way it made you feel and ask her to stop. You don't need to worry about what to do because you've done nothing wrong. Just bew authentic to yourself and to her.
2006-11-25 16:39:16 · answer #1 · answered by Emilia D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell your mom, and don't worry about it. You need to be non-judgemental and tell your friend that you will be her best friend if she wants but that you aren't interested in more than that. Make sure you let her know that it doesn't make her any less in your eyes. If she doesn't stop pursuing you, then you must cut off all contact with her. She's disrespecting your wishes, if it continues.
2006-11-25 16:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 22:26:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is ahard one. Give yourself some space with your friend until you can see her againIf you feel you cannot be friends with her then break off your friendship gently with a call or a letter and explain howyou feel about things.
2006-11-25 16:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you confide in your mom and it will help you to come to terms with what has happened then yes. but what you should be asking is if you ran away because you were scared of being caught with another girl or if you were really and truely disgusted
2006-11-25 16:38:42 · answer #5 · answered by desiree60411 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to have a serious talk with ur friend since that is what u called her.and let her know whats up with u other than that it might go further and u dont want that
2006-11-25 17:05:24 · answer #6 · answered by sweetoceana204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im a guy but I think you need to have a serious talk with her ..
but try to still be friends with her.......
2006-11-25 16:37:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to be up front with her and let her know how you feel. Then if she continues you should let a parent know, whether it is yours or hers. If this is something you find distasteful and no longer want to be her friend than let her know how you feel.
2006-11-25 16:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by VLEEKS47 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her u r uncomfortable with the friendship and u would like to end it. honey u didn't do anything wrong so if she keeps harassing u then tell ur mom. or a teacher or other adult
2006-11-25 16:41:16 · answer #9 · answered by lalalalalalalalala23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are like this only who love this types of habits but don"t get involved in it because it illegal and can give u bad habits and health. just say her that u don"t want her friendship any more. and search for a good friend
2006-11-25 16:38:43 · answer #10 · answered by rocker!!!is!!!back!!! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋