It's been almost 5 months, and I still have not gotten over my ex-boyfriend. I've tried a few hook ups, but they have just made me miss him more. I can not get over him. Please give me tips to try and help me! Thank you!
2006-11-25 16:25:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
talk to him tell him how you feel an if no results move on an get over him
2006-11-25 16:34:27 · answer #1 · answered by featherman_65018 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are absolutely sure he isn't coming back and does not love you, you have to move on. But don't rush dating. You are vulnerable and can be taken advantage of very easily. It may still be a while yet before you are ready to find someone new. Trying to replace him so soon, can worsen your pain. Believe me, I learned the hard way. In the meantime, try to get your mind of him by getting involved in other activities... maybe read a book?
I would read up on relationships, understand how they work from both partners point of views before getting involved in another. Then you will be more prepared next time around, and will know what to expect. Good luck to you.
2006-11-26 00:40:51 · answer #2 · answered by :-) literary cappy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will take alot longer than 5 months to get over someone. it does hurt, and how we deal with it, will determine how fast we move on. if we stay in it, and refuse to move on or date others, if we keep obsessiong about them, we may never move on. know firstly that this had nothing to do with u, that these things do happen in life. we have no control over another persons choices, and we can't make them love us if they don't. u need some therapy to get your self esteem back, when we have a major breakup and it was someone very special to us, our self worth takes a beating, we feel unworthy of anything, we blame ourselves for the breakup. just know that it takes time, love doesn't just die when we split up with someone, it's all about a lesson we are suppose to learn. it does hurt like hell when we have lost someone we love, it feels as if we have lost part of ourselves, and we have. we defined ourselves by him and his life, and now we feel we don't even have a life anymore. know exacly what u are feeling. sending prayer's your way.
2006-11-26 00:40:49 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont move on then that would really suck...i am there right now with the same delema and you know what...he wants something else not me and im trying to move on i know its hard but im trying out the single life for a while and im slowly feeling better....let him make his choices for him self and try your hardest to respect his choices cause if you do really care about him then you should be able to let him go....
2006-11-26 00:51:33 · answer #4 · answered by mytedominatrix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will help !!! It's hard to get over it, but you will, keep meeting other people, eventually the hurt will ease but don't compare the people you date with him, just keep an open mind and Mr.Right will come along.
2006-11-26 00:34:51 · answer #5 · answered by frustrated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to someone you love like your mom or dad. They always have good advice!
2006-11-26 00:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by candacemcgee420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing...DONT TALK TO HIM. Make sure you have all your things, have no excuses to talk to him. This will make a difference, believe me. Write him a letter with your feelings and dont send it...
2006-11-26 00:35:24 · answer #7 · answered by Jay Jay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away from him completely...he is not coming back its been 5 months, What are you waiting for????
2006-11-26 00:29:37 · answer #8 · answered by Mimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋