I'm married, and I'm falling in love with someone else. I've never cheated on my wife, but I don't know what'll happen if something doesn't change fast. I don't know how it happened, or why I feel as if I click with this other woman so much more. Can someone offer me advise on this situation....
2006-11-25 16:22:56 · 11 answers · asked by Ryan O 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I feel so bad for you already. You are not doing anything wrong. You can click with another woman, maybe somethings are wrong in your marriage. We are not here to advise you to not to break up your marriage or to break up. Those are supposed to be your decisions, but one thing is for sure, true love is a rare thing. It may not happen to a person the first time. My father-in-law was happily married for 23 years after he seperated from his first wife and his memories linger on with his second wife after his death.
2006-11-25 16:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by S&D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from the other woman all together, no talking to her or anything. Look at what all you have to loose!! Put that extra energy into your relationship with your wife. Cheating on your mate is the worst thing that you can do to her. Once you cheat on her, then comes the lies. It will reach up and bite you in the butt when you are not expecting it. What goes around will come around. Don't be the trash that so many people are, that are out there cheating. How would you feel if it was your wife that was thinking about cheating on you? Do you really want to hurt your wife, you will if you cheat on her. There is no excuse what so ever for cheating.
2006-11-26 00:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you won't like the answer or advice I'll give you, but
don't do something you'll regret for the rest of your life. I don't know how long you've been married but what you are feeling for this other woman probably has nothing to do with love. Think long and hard before you do something stupid and ask yourself if it's worth hurting your wife and losing your marriage over. If you are saying you're falling in love with this woman already, then
do your wife a favor and walk away from her first. I really wish you well, but I think you are making a
bad choice but it's your life, don't risk your wife's life by
cheating on her.
2006-11-26 00:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by frustrated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one. How does the "other woman" feel. What have you told her? Have you told her you love her? If you haven't then be fair to both women and try to make things work with your wife. Because if you do tell the other woman you love her, then you have two women's hearts to break. If you truly do love her, then maybe you need to tell your wife how you feel. Be honest and file for a divorce.
2006-11-26 03:04:25 · answer #4 · answered by confused13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put the shoe on the other foot! What if your wife was falling in love with another man and the thought of cheating was on her mind! How would you feel? Not good I suspect!
2006-11-26 00:41:53 · answer #5 · answered by pete 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN...as for and fast as you can away from this situation. Do everything you can to avoid time alone with this person and honestly, I would disclose this to your wife so you're accountable.
Picture the pain and tears on your wifes face and decide if this is what you want.
The grass is always greener over the septic field :-)
Read Dr. Phil's advice below.
2006-11-26 00:36:45 · answer #6 · answered by me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay away from the other woman, are you in love or just think you are sometimes that feeling gets confused when there are other problems beneath the surface, talk to your wife and tell her that some things need to change, ask her to go to counseling with you, cheating does not always include sex, it also includes spending quality time with someone other than your wife
2006-11-26 00:28:24 · answer #7 · answered by tammy r 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing, when you hit the ground, get up dust your self office and love your wife. Falling for another is different than falling in love. Stay with your wife.
2006-11-26 01:31:48 · answer #8 · answered by Rodney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, stop talking to the other woman. find out what is wrong in your marraige and fix it. the other woman only wants you think she is better than your wife. trust me she is not. good for you for never cheating now stop talking to the other woman and stayfaithful. your wife loves you and deserves the best. i hope things work out.
2006-11-26 00:29:16 · answer #9 · answered by Thumbs down me now 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
be a man and remember your vows...picture your wife dead in a coffin and how it would make you feel.....do you think the grass is greener? you will get bored of the new one too. be a man
2006-11-26 00:25:53 · answer #10 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋