I know I have posted questions before, but my boyfriend although he says he loves me more then anything, he is starting to flirt with another guy online. I told him I didnt want him flirting with each other but he says its for fun.
They send nude pics to each other and my bf keeps talking to him, and flirting with him and he said he doesnt care that I feel uncomfortable or anything with it.
I dont know what to do, im so close to breaking up with him...
2006-11-25 16:14:42 · 12 answers · asked by ca4btts 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
OK, so the title and question dont match, I have to say that they have been flirting with each other almost all day now.
2006-11-25 16:18:43 · update #1
he told me is going throug a bi curious phase, but i agree flirting with either sex is cheating.
He gets all defensive and says he doesnt want me reading the convo because it makes him feel uncomfortable.
I already told him i thought he was lying and if he continues to be secretive then I will think the worst.
He wants sex from me alot, but its doggy and quickies
2006-11-25 16:33:45 · update #2
funny what happens with the subconcious, someday he will go( their..)
2006-11-25 17:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if he was flirting with another woman all day?
My guess his butt would be history, there would be no dithering in that situation.
This is no different. He is at best disrespecting you and your feelings. Its as if he is rubbing your face in this, sadistically. No one innocently flirts all day, and I know very few straight men that would be comfortable flirting (even as a joke) for more than a couple of minutes with another man. At worse, the dude is cheating. It may only be cyber now (but can you be 100% certain of that) but it would not take much for him to take it the next step.
I don't care if the dude is straight, bi, gay or curious. He is an SOB. Treat this the same as if it were a woman he was chatting with.
Speaking as gay guy, this stinks to high heaven, and wish you luck.
2006-11-26 00:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by imaginary friend 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you break up with him -- I'm just wondering -- since he's being rude and incensitive to your feelings?
You say you want him to stop trading nudies and flirting with other guys. He says he won't. You don't dump him. You're allowing yourself to be treated like this by staying in the relationship.
Your boyfriend may be bi or gay. It doesn't matter how he classifies himself. It wouldn't matter if it was another woman rather than a man. What should matter to you is that he's totally disregarding your feelings, and you're letting him. It could be that he does love you, but is not in love with you.
It sounds like it's time to take a good look at this relationship and decide if there really is a future in it for you. If he won't participate in that process, unfortunately, you have your answer.
2006-11-26 00:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by question_ahoy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok this is really blatant and in your face kind of stuff. He isn't even hiding it, why should he since he tells you how it is going to be. Think more of yourself, anotherwords like The Queen of Soul ,Miss Aretha Franklin sang, R-E-S-P-E-C-T! You need to respect yourself, because he doesn't respect you at all by what he is doing. And you know what, you are allowing it to go on. You know you should be walking out that door!
2006-11-26 00:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to cut him loose. He is cheating on you and if he doesn't care to change, then he isn't a good boyfriend. It doesn't matter whom he is flirting with and what gender that person is. If he is doing something that makes you uncomfortable and refuses to change, then you are better off without him.
2006-11-26 00:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by Maggie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok if your ok with you boyfriend being bi then you have to accept the fact he will be interested in the opposite sex if this is not what you are looking for in a relationship then dear its time to move on.
2006-11-26 00:18:49 · answer #6 · answered by imalwayswatchin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there's not much you can do. Your bf seems to have made all the decisions that he's about to make....you either stay with him the way he is or don't...sorry.
2006-11-26 00:17:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong to send naked pics to EITHER sex when you have a girlfriend. you need to leave him for that reason alone.I hate to break it to you but your boyfriend is gay. You need to leave him alone and let him be with guys.
2006-11-26 01:19:07 · answer #8 · answered by krystal s 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
U should've been broken up. HE'S GAY, HELLO. And if he isn't willing to come out and tell u that then u risk the chance of getting HIV or other STD's
2006-11-26 00:17:18 · answer #9 · answered by oohLa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its time to find someone else,if he won't take your feelings in mind and stop what he is doing now then he never will.it will hurt but this will never work out for you.
2006-11-26 00:23:47 · answer #10 · answered by luwhodude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋