Me and my girlfriend have had sex three times in the past week. Her period is due today, but it hasn't occured yet. We're practically waiting for it to come, but it hasn't yet. Come tomorrow she'll be a day late. We're really worried.
We've had sex 3 times, and each time only lasted roughly two minutes, and I wore a spermicidal condom, which didn't break any of the times. I never ejaculated either, there was pre *** in the condom itself, but none got out.
Should we be worrying?
2006-11-25 16:10:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
No, not at all if the info you gave is accurate--At least you shouldn't be...
2006-11-25 16:12:41 · answer #1 · answered by Flighty 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all... stop worrying, slow down, and start enjoying it- both of you. You're taking good precautions with the spermicide. By having her worry, it will definately delay her period. I guess anything is possible... but it's would practically take a miracle if she was pregnant if everything you wrote is true. I'm 28- have a 4 year old and I got pregnant very easily... but we used no precautions. Getting pregnant easily means getting pregnant on the first full-blown natural shot.... Always use some sort of birth control even if it means just pulling out (a little riskier- but still unlikely that she could get pregnant that way).
2006-11-26 00:17:35 · answer #2 · answered by Emilia D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry right away. Just because she is due tomorrow, does not mean she will start. If she is stressing out she could also delay the start of her period. Just relax and calm down. Wait a week if her period doesn't start take a pregnancy test. You could also go and get an EPT test, they can let you know if she is pregnant before the period is missed.
2006-11-26 00:14:45 · answer #3 · answered by MRod 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think she's pregnant. I judge this based on your info of wearing a condom (good for both of you!). She is probably stressing about her period and stress itself can make the period be delayed.
If her period doesn't come within the next week or so, I would have her go to a doctor. More than likely it's a stress related issue.
2006-11-26 00:14:40 · answer #4 · answered by meredelamour 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying, it sounds like you took wonderful precautions. Girls can be late, early, or even skip a period all together, the menstrual cycle is not perfect. Have her get on the pill to regulate her periods and have even more protection on top of the condoms and spermicide. I am sure she will get her period and if not, see a doctor to make sure she is ok health wise. Good luck!
2006-11-26 00:19:34 · answer #5 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a possibility that you can get pregnant any time you have sex. If your girl friend is worrying about being pregnant it my be the reason her period has not came yet I would suggest having her take a home pregnancy test.
2006-11-26 01:42:51 · answer #6 · answered by nickieandsarahsmommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its possible that with all the worrying, you guys are causing her body to stress out & her period isn't coming with all the stress. Stress will cause you to skip a period, so my advice would be to relax. You guys sound like you have been very safe so I dont think there is much to worry about.
2006-11-26 00:37:32 · answer #7 · answered by shortygirl825 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your gf has been stressing about this too much, it could be a reason why her period is late. There are plenty of clinics that offer free pregnancy tests - just go check to relieve the stress.
2006-11-26 00:17:39 · answer #8 · answered by kaus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes worry can make your period late. Give it another couple of days. From your description, I say you are not pregnant. If this is the first sexual experience for the both of you, maybe the excitement, fear of being caught, fear of getting pregnant is causing her cycle to get out of whack. If you are going to continue having sex, maybe birth control pills are in order.
2006-11-26 00:23:18 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should be worrying about being pregnant. You had safe sex dude, so just chill out. On the other hand, I do think you should be worrying that you only last 2 minutes.
2006-11-26 00:17:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down. Stress can cause her period to be late.
I don't think it's likely that she's pregnant. Wait a few days,
if it doesn't show up, buy a home pregnancy test.
2006-11-26 00:20:29 · answer #11 · answered by txharleygirl1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋