I am 20 years old currently staying at Pune... I dont know what has been wrong with me.... Ever since I was 13 I have been unwantingly been dragged into situations.....
My neighbourhood aunties used to call me... feed me some food and often try to play with my genitals.. I never knew what was it and just ejaculated soon enough. Lata aunty, Tanya aunty, Sheetal aunty , I have found out that it was molestation or rather rape It went on for 3 years.. i couldnt take it n e more. never told my parents about it.
Then my DAD shifted from my neighbourhood I thought but yet again in my new neighbourhood problems arose.Reema Arora aunty living at the flat above ours used to eye me in a very dirty look. Aunty always tried to touch me wrong places. Whenever I resisted she threatened me of the COPS. I was still raped again and again several times. I liked all that was happening yet coultdnt know which way to walk away or not ?.Will so much of sex in my teens have a bad effect now on my life?
2006-11-25 15:42:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Safe as long as your psyche does not change. But it seems you are enjoying. Oh yes, you are fantasizing. At 20 normal. More the merrier. Lage raho
2006-11-28 22:48:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The problem with your experiences is the guilt you needlessly feel as a young adult. You have been told that you were raped, molested, etc. That is a common experience for young boys, we all have a story or two about such encounters. The fact that you rightly liked the feeling of sex leads you to think that you were responsible for all that happened. As if not liking it would have been a positive thing. Problem is, if it was done in a way that did not scare you, i.e. you were not treated rough or physically hurt, you should like the feeling and the fact that women found you "man enough" to engage in the behavior. Again, I think this is far more common than reported.
Counseling is always a good thing. Find a therapist who has a specialty in the area of child molestation and the aftermath. But, get on with life, love, sex and the pursuit of happiness in the meantime.
2006-11-25 17:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would do you good to go to a counselor to discuss this. It is bothering you or you wouldn`t be here asking for advice. No one should have to carry this burden around in their heart all the time. It wasn`t your fault, you were a victim. Good Luck.
2006-11-25 15:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's best if you forget about it and move on. If you can't then you should go get help. Don't let this ruin your life just forget about it. It will only have bad effects on your life if you let it.
2006-11-25 15:49:52 · answer #4 · answered by Harold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEAWARE to Answer this question. He is telling lie, to get sympathy. OR he is explaining his feeling as if his life's tragidy.
2006-11-27 05:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but you should get some counseling ,, to help you deal with that molesting of you,,,,
how can aunt be sooo cruel,,
get some help now,,, it wasn't your fault,,,
2006-11-25 15:45:53 · answer #6 · answered by thanks to our brave troops, 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
not advisable either health reasons are ethics
2006-11-25 17:37:24 · answer #7 · answered by roaringlion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...i love how you just lied to everyone to get sympathy. i applaud. and peeps believed you
2006-11-25 16:03:38 · answer #8 · answered by montana1445 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
beware of std/vd/aids
2006-11-25 15:58:29 · answer #9 · answered by R Purushotham Rao 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋