but i like him now, no I haven't told him. I started wanting more about 7 months ago, I can't bring myself to tell him. After I told him that I was seeing someone, he's been making sexual comments to me. He said a couple of weeks ago, you have big t***, I never noticed before, then again I never looked at you before. He's began to tell me about all the sex he's having with these other women. He started calling my daughter, "his daughter", right in front of his friends. But he only calls me once every 8 or 9 days now. I don't know what to think about this. What do you think? Thanks
2006-11-25 15:20:55 · 12 answers · asked by Selena Jade's Mommy 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Men are not mind readers. You need to tell him that you have feelings for him.
He has already dropped hints (in a very crude and rude male way obviously) that he's interested in you.
As for the telling you about all the sex he's had thing... That's just a banty rooster thing.
Sorta like, "Hey there... Look at me and all my purrrty feathers I have... I've had soooo many women... So I must be hot stuff... So come on and give me a try... "
That sorta thing.
As for calling your daughter his daughter. He obviously has been thinking about what it would like to be in a relationship with you and seeing (daydreaming) himself as a father to your daughter. So obviously he has some interest in you. He's probably wishing that you would give a clear signal as to whether or not your ready to proceed to the next level and become more than just friends.
The balls in your court. You need to examine your feelings toward him, and then tell him one way or another. He's not going to figure it out on his own. Men are stupid when it comes to reading subtle signals from women.
But, don't take too long to make your decision. Otherwise that boat's going to set sail, and your may never get another shot at it. And if he hasn't called you in 8 or 9 days now, that ship may be pulling out of the pier as we speak, heading toward another womans safe harbor.
Good luck. I hope everything turns out well for you. Bye! :-)
2006-11-25 15:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by Microsoft Bob 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have a "unusual" boy chum. i'd "assume" which you're plenty older than him and he's amazingly shy or perchance a virgin. If no longer, than you have a difficulty on your hands which you will could do away with. He can even have some variety of STD and he's protecting you. Then, back, he would merely like men extra effective and you're a "front" for him. think of roughly it. ASK him why he hasn't ordinary your gives you. solid luck. Pops
2016-10-04 09:10:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friendship mean anything at all it would be best to stay just friends. trying to take it a step further could really mess up a good friendship and regardless of what your hormones are saying, nothing can replace a good friend and especially one of the opposite sex. Dont be another statistic believing that females and males cant be just friends. they can. Just dont cross that line.
2006-11-25 15:26:40 · answer #3 · answered by comfortz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're old enough to have a daughter, you're old enough to ask him out. When he starts flirting, flirt back, and use your body language to show him you're interested. If he can't take a hint, he's crazy.
Also be prepared, once you have an intimate relationship, it's very hard to go back to being friends if you break up. It worked for Seinfeld, but I don't know of very many others.
2006-11-25 15:24:35 · answer #4 · answered by upallnight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him about it. It doesn't have to be up to the guy to initiate phone calls or even a relationship, and maybe he hasn't made a move yet because he knew you were seeing someone. It sounds like he wants to make you jealous - are you trying to make HIM jealous too? Maybe have him over to your house and talk about it. Straightforward is usually the best way to go - I hate playing games, know what I mean?
2006-11-25 15:25:16 · answer #5 · answered by lylackfaerie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how old your and he were, but he is being rude about talking about his sex with others, I think he trying to push you away, and really doesn't want anything other than friends with you. you are looking to getting hurt in this one
2006-11-25 15:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by ejpelljo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know how you feel who knows he might like you 2 youll never know untill you let yourself be told
2006-11-25 15:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by Jim Crede 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't read your mind. Go after what you want. Life is short.
2006-11-25 15:23:44 · answer #8 · answered by Thebronx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to ask this in the right forum.
2006-11-25 15:24:37 · answer #9 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have sex w/ him and tell him how you feel about him.
2006-11-25 15:25:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋