2006-11-25 15:04:35 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You probably aren't gay.. go for it.
2006-11-25 15:05:55 · answer #1 · answered by jit bag 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
The thing is, you can fall in love with her an still be gay. The question is, are you sexurally attracted to her? If not, then you are still gay. Youa re feeling a differnt kind of love.
2006-11-26 12:04:18 · answer #2 · answered by quest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are falling for a female then you are bisexual. You should be honest with her. If she is into guys then she might like the fact you like her, if she is like me and lesbian then maybe you should not tell her. I know I would not like the idea that a guy is falling for me and I am lesbian. Been there and done that. Not a very pleasant feeling when my heart is with the women. Anyway, good luck to you. :)
2006-11-26 01:35:15 · answer #3 · answered by spiritcavegrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could delicately ask her if she feels she's gay or bi-sexual. If she's bi-sexual, she may be more into the person than the body. But, doesn't matter if you fall for someone or not, if they aren't attracted to you for any reason, it's hard to make that work.
2016-05-23 03:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't confuse love of a friend and intimate love. If you're gay, chances are you're finding your special female friend ("fag hag"). I say, just recognize her as the friend without benefits that we all want to have, but so few get.
2006-11-25 17:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by brubob0811 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my day they were called 'Fag Hags' The feeling will pass the moment a guy slows down to look at you. She'll feel neglected, then recover when you call to tell her all about the guy. She'll be so happy you called, and you'll be even more happy that you didn't call her until after you got the guys number. History repeating..................
2006-11-25 21:27:43 · answer #6 · answered by older, not wiser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother named Mark also claimed he was gay. He, too met a woman, and fell in love and married her -- and remained true to her within the marriage! Maybe you're not really as gay as you think you are!
She was his best friend, too, by the way.
2006-11-25 15:10:45 · answer #7 · answered by Ifeelyourpain 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget labels, date the gentlemen or ladies who make you tingle. But be careful and honest with your friend. You wouldn't want to declare your everlasting love and then find out on the first date that you don't like kissing women after all.
2006-11-25 15:08:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is it possible your Bi and didn't realize it until now? Talk to her (if you haven't already) and see where this takes you. Don't worry about this, love doesn't come around everyday. Have fun and enjoy where love takes the both of you.
Take Care
2006-11-25 15:12:49 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the predicament? You aren't gay. Allow yourself to love her. It's obvious your heart already does.
2006-11-25 15:07:52 · answer #10 · answered by Pamela 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Forget being gay as you are not gay i fyou have feelings for a female. Just be sure it is what you want because she does not need mistreatment or abuse a gay boyfriend would lay on her.
2006-11-25 15:07:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋