i've been friends w/ him for years and now hes become attractive to me. i told him that i loved him while he was in a relationship cuz i was getting jelous then that girl dumped him and me and him got in a fight and he still wont talk to me what should i do?
2006-11-25 15:01:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
In this case you also divert your attentions to some one else for some time and dont talk to him. you must stay firm on it.You will see he will come begging to you.
2006-11-25 15:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by observer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now, what i would do is maybe give him a note or try to talk to him, telling him that you are sorry and didnt mean to ruin his relationship. Tell him that you just wanted to tell him how you feel, nothing more nothing less. Tell him you didnt mean for it to happen and want you both to stop ignoring each oher, if not friends, than aquaintences. If he still doesnt listen or still is holding the grudge, then leave him alone for awhile. But make sure, he knows how sorry you are and didnt mean for his relationship to end. If, when you are telling him he doesnt listen, than you have a right to get mad, and tell him to stop holding a grudge and to stop being mad at you because you really didnt mean for this to happen. Just aslong as he knows that you are sorry and atleast want to stop fighting and be if not friends again, than aquaintences. Get it in his head atleast!
2006-11-25 15:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by Cornelia Anabelle Banana Bo Peep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and tell him your sorry. Also, never tell anyone you love them right away. The only way to let him know is to flirt a little and send some hints, but don'tbe to strong with your feelings. Butsince it is a little to late, the best thing for you to do is apologize and send him a bouquet of roses and a card. If he can't forgive you, he is not a good person.
2006-11-25 15:07:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sorta thing happened to me to.Well if he is mad at you,it might be because it is a little wierd to him,because he may not think of you like that.Give him a little space and apoligize,or tell him you really need to talk to him about whats happened to you.Or if that fails,have a friend or someone you trust to talk to him.
2006-11-25 15:11:40 · answer #4 · answered by Austinlover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try patching things up and simply write him a letter or note to tell him how you feel(I find it is easier to write your thoughts and give it to the person). Just see what happens if he does not accept your apologt than he is not a real friend.
2006-11-25 15:05:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really do not understand how you fall in love with a best friend....either you are misdiagnosing or you are not really best friends....yall are just playing around each other
2006-11-25 15:06:44 · answer #6 · answered by chromegrill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try to clear things up with him. Just give it time and it might just work, since like you've said, he's your best friend.
2006-11-25 15:04:51 · answer #7 · answered by rhys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to talk to him find a way because what you did was very wrong
2006-11-25 15:03:40 · answer #8 · answered by labonitameli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be persistent. but try not to come off as obsessive. :) hope this helps. :)
2006-11-25 15:11:36 · answer #9 · answered by Melody P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write him a latter telling him how u feel.
2006-11-25 15:05:52 · answer #10 · answered by ELIZABETH A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋