I have yet to reach an orgasm and not quite sure what to expect in order to have one.
I've heard you can reach stimualtion through clitoris and g-spot. When I am turned on, my clitortis will tickle and feel good...and then it just starts to hurt so I have to stop stimulation to that area. Is the clitoris SUPPOSED to tickel to the point of hurting when you experience an orgasm or am I missing a step?
I have yet to be able to get satisfied with the g-spot. Either the technique isn't right or I cannot find it. But that area just doesn't feel good when pressure is applied. How do I locate and find satisfaction through g-spot stimulation?
Any help with this would be great!!!!
2006-11-25 14:24:20 · 5 answers · asked by skinneybones979 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
How long have you been trying? Both in the sense as to how long ago you started masturbating, and how long do you mastubate for?
If your clit is starting to hurt, then you are applying to much pressure. Just rub it lightly, you can also try using a lubricant so that your fingers just glide over it. Try vasiline, or lotion if you don't happen to have any KY around the house.
Also you need to have plenty of time, trying to rush yourself to an orgasm will always leave you frustrated.
2006-11-25 16:55:53 · answer #1 · answered by knihelpu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-19 23:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The clitoris should not hurt. If it starts to, try putting some lubricant or use your own saliva to make it moist again. If it's totally dry, then it can definitely be a little painful while you're rubbing it. As far as orgasm...it takes a woman about 20 minutes to reach with constant stimulation.
2006-11-25 14:42:12 · answer #3 · answered by First Lady 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try some alternatives like a vibrator or a sybian. When a male esort was asked what gave him the best results (back in the 90's - some interview) He said he inserted a common bendable straw and gently blew into it. I've also heard that this method can be dangerous if too much air is blown too deep so try at own risk. But in my opinion ANYthing is worth risking for an orgasm!
Have fun and let me know if you run out of air, I'd love to try giving a reverse bloJyob,..lol
2006-11-25 14:32:13 · answer #4 · answered by fantasticopinionsfree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To achieve an orgasm is not easy..you shud understand ur body well before that...well most girls are not able to achieve orgasm by self..they need partner either from same sex or from opposite sex..
Step1
Spread your legs widely and sit
Step2
Allow your partner to see it and put his finger with ease
Step3
Communicate with ur partner as much as possible
Step4
Ask him to increase the speed as its makes u on and on
Step5
G-Spot Stimulation will be needed
Step6
Close ur eyes and take deep breath and think only abt ur body
Step7
when u feel the point of climax put all u pressure to push it
Step8
Relaz and enjoy !!
2006-11-26 03:40:02 · answer #5 · answered by Marshal h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋