if you're homosexual, and you want to live a regular life with a woman in your future, what can you do to begin your attraction to women?
please help me..
2006-11-25 14:01:43 · 14 answers · asked by potatoesi 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
YOU HAVE TO FIND SOMEONE YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO.
2006-11-25 14:03:40 · answer #1 · answered by shannon c 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you truly are a homosexual, then stop trying to be something you are not! For a homosexual, it is a regular life to life with a partner of his choice. To build a life together, share the good times and the bad and help each other grow each day.
God doesn't create any junk - you are a creature of God - therefore you are good and whole just the way you are. Celebrate who you are, the talents you bring to this world, the caring you feel for others.
If people have a problem with your homosexuality remember it is THEIR problem - not yours.
Good luck and God bless you!
2006-11-25 14:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by LABL 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you know your gay why would you want to change?
There is of course your potential of thinking there is something wrong with you or that you are a bad person because of your sexual preference.
If you believe you can developer an authentic transformation to heterosexuality you will be the exception and not the rule.
I struggled with it for many years, hated myself for a while, even got married and had kids.
When I got divorced I had to re asses my choices in life and finally accepted the fact that I prefer men over women...just the way it is.
I accept myself and so do my family and friends.
Think it over and do whatever you do because it is right for you, not anyone else.
Love yourself.
2006-11-25 16:42:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are a homosexual and you want to live a normal life, you would be a hoomosexual. Liking women and spending life with them is more of a majority thing than a normal thing.
2006-11-25 14:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by Tyler 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
first of all you have to discover why are you a homosexual and why did you start feeling attracted to men, then try to analyze why you dont want men in your life.
try making new friends specially girls so you can get to know them better, interact with them.
try to find out why you want to be with a girl because that might mean youre not accepting yourself, but If you want to live with a girl that means that you might be afraid of being a homo, accept yourself as you are and then try to understand that you might actually get to feel attracted to women, no one deserves a lie; so dont lie to a girl.
youre not gonna get an erection just by lookin at nude females try not looking at guys and instead try to look at girls, ive got this theory that sex ACTUALLY IS according to what you prefer.
2006-11-25 14:11:04 · answer #5 · answered by socalledchema 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sounds to me that you may just be confused! not sure if your homosexual because that's how u feel or because you've had homosexual sex, but if you want to live your life with a woman, the homosexual desire must either not be strong, or it's guilt. I recommend alot of prayer. I don't know your religious background but try talking to a spiritual leader that you trust. Anyway, take your problem to God and try to shift your focus.
2006-11-26 17:52:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
now thats a hard one. make some changes to more like a man like get a man hair cut, maybe grow a gootee. i dont know if your voice is strong like most men if not try to change your voice to be more stronger. change your clothes, wear more of what a man would wear.if you are homosexual ,i thought you was born this way and its not that easy to change.the question is are you attracted to women ?are you doing it for another reason.help me to understand
2006-11-25 14:10:41 · answer #7 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Brother that's a tall order! First don't try to decieve! You will cause a lot of damage, find a woman that understands and is willing to "teach" you and you may make it work out. But, doubtful. Sorry. When your gay your gay. I know , been there done that. Good luck!
2006-11-25 14:06:59 · answer #8 · answered by Fireman T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would take years of prayers and therapy to get you attracted to a female your age. Most gays are mama's boys and would be more attracted to older women. Look for an experienced divorcee of childbearing age who will love and understand you.
2006-11-25 14:18:18 · answer #9 · answered by unica_hija77@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Look nice. Don't dress in ratty clothes.
2006-11-25 14:03:42 · answer #10 · answered by pilljills 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wear cool clothes. talk to the populars. get a good hair do. flirt with pretty girls. try not to make it look like your tryying
2006-11-25 14:49:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋