im freakin shy when i dont know people , but when i get to knoe em betta , im like realkly loud and outgoing , but i wanna be outgoing , and not turn red all da time , when random people ask me somethin \its really ah-noying , how do I get ridd of it ?
2006-11-25 13:58:55 · 10 answers · asked by purple_waatermelon13 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
One person I know who was shy took a public speaking course. If your question was honest, I recommend it. Also, your spelling is terrible and you sound like Ali-G when you talk, so if you're doing this intentionally, grow up!
2006-11-25 14:03:24 · answer #1 · answered by E L 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am the same way...but I am getting better. I find that if I talk to people a little bit at a time I feel more comfortable. I started practicing by saying hi to people if we made eye contact, like at the grocery store. Now I don't always turn red. I still need work on talking to people that I am attracted to...I turn brighter red then the worse sunburn ever...but I am not as shy as I used to be. LOL Good Luck
2006-11-25 22:09:49 · answer #2 · answered by Becky R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be comfortable with who you are. Ask yourself--what bad would really happen if you were a little more outgoing? Now, that's not to say that you should be loud and boisterous all the time--sometimes it's not appropriate--and you also shouldn't open yourself up completely if you don't know someone, but just know who you are and be proud of it. Then you'll know you have nothing to fear as far as what anyone thinks. And don't forget: It's not always important what other people think of you!!!!
2006-11-25 22:05:29 · answer #3 · answered by ak47_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try small tasks such as asking what time it is to a stranger or just saying hello to a random person walking their dog if you're out a stroll.
Then once you get used to that introduce youself on an airplane to the person next to you or something. Talk about something you are very familiar with.
2006-11-25 22:07:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i my self was always a shy person, i would get soooo nervous when talking in front of people and meeting new people. i was always the quiet one and didn't like to talk to people i did not know. i overcame my shyness by just thinking to myself why should i be shy? i gave myself some confidence. also i took a speech class and that really helped out a lot now im not so shy to talk to people.
2006-11-25 22:19:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Begin from dancing nude in front of your mirror, but in private! Never forget that how the boldest guy u meet would look when their pants r pulled down. Always remember we'll r the same beneath our wrappings!
2006-11-25 22:17:57 · answer #6 · answered by Osama bin Laden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a good book on the subject called "Shyness" by Philip G Zimbardo.
2006-11-25 22:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by Torrey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u has the problem my friend has how about start off talking to them then talk to more people cuz if u could get 1 u can get another one
2006-11-25 22:22:57 · answer #8 · answered by Tam N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people are shy at the begining it will past with time. its ok to be shy.
2006-11-25 22:02:19 · answer #9 · answered by annjilena 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get active in school, punky!
2006-11-25 22:15:00 · answer #10 · answered by Cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋