My wife is so boring sexually. How can I get her to try something really out of her comfort zone?
2006-11-25 13:58:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You said it... Out of the comfort zone.
She would have to be comfortable or at least willing to try. #1 She has to trust you. Really trust you. she has to trust that once y'all start this so called adventure and if she becomes uncomfortable at any time and wants to slow down or stop she has to trust that you will respect her. If she thinks that you won't or will take a min or 2 then she won't be open to the idea.
Trust is the foundation. Hopefully she is willing to fulfill your fantasy.
Good Luck.
2006-11-25 14:02:43 · answer #1 · answered by Thebronx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried telling her you want to try something different or better yet getting her into a wild, kinky mood? Maybe you're not stimulating her sexually. You never know, she may be saying the same about you. Talk to her seriously about your desires. There's nothing wrong with a little adventureous sex. Test her out with something small first, then go from there.
2006-11-25 14:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by KCATP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
short of a miracle, it is very doubtfull. why should she she has u, ur paycheck and with a marriage licesne whe is required to do nothing, and if u should get tired of this and find what she will not give it will be all on u, and she will be the poor pitiful cheated on wife. others will say try romance, flowers, card, massages, backrubs, etc......nothing works unless she wants it. get out and find someone who is not colder than the north pole, otherwise u ar stuck, get some porn and use ur hand
2006-11-25 14:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by keithy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when your in bed you try something new to see if she likes it. if she doesn't, let it go and the next time try a new thing an so on and so on. remember if she doesn't like something don't get mad at her it will only make her not want to try something new again.
PS make sure you do allot of 4 play so she will be in the mood so it will be easy for her to do what ever you have in mind.
2006-11-25 14:16:32 · answer #4 · answered by Dirk Diggler(the one and only) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you herd of Necro? Find a cd of his its awsome get her to listen to it and she will get ideas all on her own. You also could watch some porn together....that always works...lol have fun with it
Don't forget the Booze
2006-11-25 17:01:30 · answer #5 · answered by Prissie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Booze.
2006-11-25 14:04:59 · answer #6 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband's advice, Buy her copy of "Sheet Music" by Dr. Kevin Leman. Put it where she will find it, and get her to read it.
2006-11-25 14:02:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
buy her some lingarai (lacy underwear, and bras) and tell her theres nothing to worry about since you guys are married, and you wanna have fun.
2006-11-25 14:24:47 · answer #8 · answered by tortl :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
become swingers===thats exciting--maybe will put her in the mood ======
2006-11-25 14:42:39 · answer #9 · answered by willtdn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is easy have her call me
2006-11-25 14:02:26 · answer #10 · answered by Fergie 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋