A friend of mine has been away for two weeks on training and i counted nearlly everyday till he will be back to talk too, he is the only one i trust to talk to about things and he knows how i feel i dont really need to say anything, is this bad when you rely on someone so much in your life, will they let you down in the end?
2006-11-25 13:28:23 · 14 answers · asked by Tiamat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
treat your friend as if he's your other leg or something. without him, you can't walk straight, you'll need crutches, you'll survive, but it'll be hard.
try not to rely on him so much, it puts a lot of pressure on the person. just go on with your life as much as he goes on with his. it doesn't mean you guys can't be friends anymore, it just means, if something happens like you guys end up not being friends anymore (knock on wood)
2006-11-25 13:37:08 · answer #1 · answered by erise1013 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're lucky to have such a good friend and no, i don't think it's sad to miss someone you care about. he may never let you down as such, but there may come a time when he has other commitments and won't be there for you as much as he's now. then it could be fatal if you rely on him too much, as this could put too much pressure on him and alienate him from you. your relationship is very special and it may not be easy to find someone who understands you the way he does but i'd make an effort to develop other relationships as well. any sisters, other friends etc who you can rely on but haven't really given the opportunity to get close to you? just give it a try and you'll see that each friendship will be special in its own way.
2006-11-25 19:17:51 · answer #2 · answered by new-in-town 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it is not at all bad to rely on someone this much. I met a guy online and after talking to him for a couple months I relied on him to talk to. I missed him a whole lot when he was out of the country for like a week as well. And well... today... that guy is my fiancee.
2006-11-25 13:34:55 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is not bad, but you also must know that this person will not be there forever, neither will anyone. so you need to yes spend as much time with this person as obvious you love him. and no it is not wrong to rely on somone all the time but always have a backup plan, that is why i think athletes should have a degree at uni, as if they get an injusry and cant play, they will find nothing else to do.
2006-11-25 13:43:02 · answer #4 · answered by kimzzooo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1st of all do you love him?if so do the best thing and ask him to marry you.
I have worked a lot away from home,but my wife has put up with it for the last 7 years.now im working a few miles away and home every night.
there is nothing better than coming home from work and being able to sleep in our bed together
2006-11-25 17:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you've not only got a friend in this guy ,but a soul mate too, I can't really see him letting you down.
2006-11-25 13:50:19 · answer #6 · answered by Sierra One 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh of the man that places your hopes in the princes of this world.
We should live together, to be solidary, to be loyal, to be followerses, but in everything that we do we should never have return expectations, we won't disappoint like this ourselves
2006-11-25 13:35:25 · answer #7 · answered by Mideosam 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
every person in the world will let you down one time or another, it is just the way of the world
2006-11-25 13:46:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
NOT NESSASARLY LET YOU DOWN BUT ITS NOT GOOD YOU DEPEND ON ONLY HIM TO TALK TOO HUNNY YOU MUST TRY TO TALK TO YOUR OTHER FRIENDS START SLOW AT FIRST THEN YOU WILL BE ABLE TO MISS YOUR FRIEND FOR MORE REASONS THAN YOU WONT TALK TO ANY 1 ELSE GOOD LUCK HUN.
2006-11-25 13:35:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its not bad, every one needs a crutch. but the reliability of people can only be judged upon by the person closet to them (you).
2006-11-25 13:31:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋