i've been friends with sara for years...and at the beginning of the year, we both became best friends with this girl lizzy. i mean she's really nice and we have so much in common, but lately she's become better friends with sara then me. so i'm kinda left out D= which really sucks, because it makes me feel like a tag-along, then like a real friend. sara's #3 on lizzy's top 8 in myspace, and i'm #5. lol. forgive me for comparing my friendship to a top 8, but it's just been bugging me. any advice??? =D thanks.
2006-11-25 13:21:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i have talked to sara about it. but it only boots her ego...like "oh. she likes me better? hehehe. i'm sorry. we'll include you". so no. talking doesn't work, sorry.
2006-11-25 13:27:06 · update #1
Being friends is hard enough.But when you are not comfortable enough with yourself it will reflect in your friendships.You can not always be first in everything. Find the one thing that your good at and stick with it.If your always tring to be first on the list, you will probly find yourself last on everyones elses list.Friends are friends because they have a click. So what if someone else is in the light for awhile. Let them enjoy it for now and you will find out that you will be asked to come into the lime light and share the spot. Thats how friendships work. Its different if yous where lovers!
2006-11-25 14:45:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One way to look at it is this: sara's number 3 but being number 5 is not so bad either (it's really only 2 away from 3). Also, do you think that no one would ever be a better friend to you than sara, even temporarily. EVER? Ever is a long time - one day, you would probably have a better friend than sara and she would be feeling what you are feeling but you would still like her and still have a history of friendship with her that you would not easily disregard. So just ride it out; things tend to even out and you both get older and your social networks get bigger. If you make the effort to stay in her life, she will appreciate it.
2006-11-25 21:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the number on a myspace top 8, really a measure of who you are? Do you really want to use this as a way to determine how important you are. Move on to more important things. Give yourself more credit than you do.
2006-11-25 21:48:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have more than one top friend and so can they Just be happy they are your friends and go on.
by the way there are lots of people out in the world the more you know the more fun you will have
2006-11-25 21:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by aaricka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to this girl, sara. and let her now how you feel. how is she supposed to help you, and let you in more, if she doesnt even realize shes doing this?
in most cases the friend that is putting another friend behind a newer one, doesnt even realize it.
so dont get mad, or go off. treat her right, and just talk to her about it.
2006-11-25 21:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by Liv<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who gives a f about the top 8 on myspace. it causes so much problems
2006-11-25 21:25:12 · answer #6 · answered by Antonio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your friend is using you as a crutch, don't let her do that, just disappear for awhile, don't call, don't go anywhere with her for awhile, if she is really your friend, she will come looking for you, if not, find you a better friend.
2006-11-25 21:43:59 · answer #7 · answered by babyatgradys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL that juss let you know that friends come and they go!
2006-11-25 21:26:23 · answer #8 · answered by ~GiGGLES~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to accept that there are cooler people than you out there.
2006-11-25 21:24:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is your fate
2006-11-25 21:34:11 · answer #10 · answered by loveboy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋