never been kissed, never grinded, never ever everrr?

Question

so im asian 15
ive never been kissed
or asked to dance well when i was little like slow dancing but i havent grinded yet i mean yeah its grinding i can go on without it but how come no one asks me to dance??
ive been told that im pretty, beautiful, gorgeous, hot and im a nice girl i hang out with all kinds of ppl white black hispanic you know it
im pretty cool, haha that sounds cocky, but yeah im liked by everyone

like no one tries to get to know meee

and i hate ittt
and whenever i dance, im a pretty good dancer ive been told, guys only stare but never ask
and as to kissing
yeah im only 15 but cmonnn haha and yeah its not a race but most of my friends have kissed at least one guy and the thing is that some of them arent really that pretty or anything but they're sweet
okay i dont know.
haha i dont really care but im just curious as to why that happens

BLAH ok well thanks for reading/answering :)

Answer 1

what your complaining of isn't a bad thing. It sounds like they have a higher respect for you. I mean... look.... would they do that to someone like Oprah?
You want to go DOWN to that level, they want to respect you as a more respectable level. If you had a real diamond necklace, would you treat it like cheap jewelry? Not to insult your friends, but they're seeing themselves as costume jewelry, and you as a diamond necklace. You don't have to grind, or swap spit to be "one of the gang". Be yourself. Feel good about the fact that they don't reject you. Someone once said "Just BE. After all, we are human BE-ings, not human DO-ings".

Answer 2

sweetie this is the last thing you should worry about, finish high school and go to college and get a good job, trust me its the way to go. THere is PLENTY of time to kiss and get laid later on in life..u do not want kids while your still in highschool and trust me just kissing can lead to kids, only takes one time. Also most young guys will be shy and wont go up to pretty girls, thats just the way it is. You will have to show interest in the guy you like if you want him to take lead. Good luck =P

Answer 3

Well, maybe a lot of guys aren't ready, or they don't like who you are( personality, looks, or other things like that), but that's okay. Some people don't get kissed until they are older. Or get asked to the dance. Or any other thing like that.

Answer 4

i think people think of u more as a friend than a flirt, or a girl friend... so tell one of ur friends (the one that hangs out with the most guys is the best) how u feel and have her try to set u up... that shouldnt be that hard because as u said people had said to u, ur pretty and nice

Answer 5

Do not upset your nerves over that,maybe the right guy just hasn't come for you.Just do what I do and just continue to make your self availabe to new guys and oppurtunities.

Answer 6

try and date guys that are a few years older than you who have dating experience (16-18). also, don't be afraid to tell a guy that you think he is attractive (in a funny, "joking" way is fine) to let him know that you are interested.

Answer 7

if your shy thats probably why! guys like a forward girl most of the time, try to keep out of your shell and don't intimidate guys either

Answer 8

When you see a guy that you want to dance with do not be afraid to go up to him and tell him !!!

Answer 9

cause you are not ready. wait for the time. ther are virgins beyond 20 or 30. they have lived well. so take it easy. cuz relationships can be drama.

Answer 10

lol-the popular asian type. anyways, go ask them out instead of wait for the guy to ask you out.