her hair go gray,gains weight and no longer uses any kind of make up.can the groom sue her for fraud ?
2006-11-25 13:01:22 · 30 answers · asked by Maka 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
why not try talking to her, tell her how u feel, honestly people do change after they get married, we don't stay the same, try talking to her and telling her u would like to see her do her hair, send her to the beauty shop, get her a membership at the gym. be honest with her, i am sure she is still the same woman u married, and fell in love with. hair dye and makeup are only on the outside of someone. it's what's inside that matters.
2006-11-25 13:18:14 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What to do before anger sets in?
Do a couple of nice and romantic things where love operates.
Then introduce subject of letting yourself go.
Let her know you want to grow old with her but not this fast. (ha ha) Is she depressed about something so just let it happen. Talk to this and see if you can pick up her spirits.
Keep talking cheer and happiness.
I recommend a book that I've used a lot ASK AND IT IS GIVEN
by Abraham and Esther Hicks which truly tells you how to pick up vibrations that manifest your desires. Also a section that lists all the moods and how to lift them to next higher degree. It is loving and so good. It would be good for both of you to have a look at this Barnes & Nobles carries it. You might even want to go to Internet to find these authors and see what they have to say.
Don't give up on eachother before you try different routes to understanding.
This is the first day of your vows. Go beyond the superficial annoyances. It'll pay off in big ways.
2006-11-25 13:21:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...The day you got married everythng was fine..It is kind of like a verbal agreement....Now with the passage of time nothing to this contract has been breeched...As a matter of fact both parties agreed at the altar to take each other for better or worse etc.. til death do us part...If this were true no marriage could take place until something to stop the aging process were introduced...Unless of course you wanted to marry a Rubber doll that would not change..This would not work as there could be no real verbal agreement as the doll would have no mind of its own and would only be programmed to make a humanoid sound that says I DO..
2006-11-25 13:11:00 · answer #3 · answered by ray b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what would be the different in if you meet this young women and the male is young too and they have a lots of sex and then they get Married and the sex stops and the male spends more time in the bathroom. Come on we all have heard this so what did you learn from this ??? You need to slow down and really get to know the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with. What would happen if she stayed the same and the man turn into a drunk and a fat pig can she sue the male it works both way's
2006-11-25 13:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's you in the profile %, your hair is staggering! She is borderline on Bridezilla. Or no less than, it extremely is a impolite, irrelevant request. i does not stop the marriage in basic terms yet. provide her the income of the doubt. provide her a 2d hazard to instruct you she is a functional Bride. in basic terms tell her "No thank you, my hair is staying this way" and spot how she reacts. additionally, it particularly is mandatory to be up front that it stricken you she went on your husband and any extra with regards to the marriage, she desires again to you. If she is wisdom and respects your selection then i could forgive her pretend pas yet verify you come across NOW if she has the different requests. Does she elect a undeniable coiffure, specific footwear or rings, is getting your hair and makeup finished professionally or a undeniable way a call for? Is she looking forward to you to throw her a bachelorette occasion and bathe and if so, does she have intense standards or is she going to be appreciative and gracious no count number what you intend for her. i could clean the air NOW approximately the different requests to ascertain you nevertheless elect to be in this wedding ceremony. If she tries to push the issue with the hair or has any requests that look over the applicable you're able to could desire to step down from the marriage. something different than asking you to positioned on a undeniable gown and perchance footwear (in the event that they're functional, not some 4 inch stilettos which you could not stroll in) is over the applicable. Brides don't get to %. the bridesmaids coiffure, makeup, rings or tell the Maid of Honor to throw her any events and dictate how the events are to be themed, embellished, etc. All that stuff is Bridezilla habit, not gracious, grateful bride habit. attempt to stay cool and calm once you consult from her. do not leap to conclusions that the friendship is over. in basic terms tell her you do not elect to dye your hair and spot how she reacts formerly making your determination with regards to the marriage and the friendship. it particularly is in basic terms as crass to throw a extensive extra wholesome whilst the Bride makes a mistake because it extremely is for the Bride to act annoying. consult from her first, then make a determination.
2016-12-29 12:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by dustman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but if she does not care that much about herself to look somewhat presentable, I doubt there is much left for You as well.
I would discuss it with her and see if counseling is needed and accepted as something to help. You seem to be in a big hurry to end the relationship so perhaps there is not much in it from either side, such as love and commitment
Life is too short to stay in a marriage that makes one or both of you unhappy. You won't be coming back for a second life so I would seek a solution or a separation.
2006-11-25 13:13:06 · answer #6 · answered by John E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Though I don't think it would fly, you can always try it. Just make sure your own ducks are in a row. Do YOU still pay the same attention to her as when you were dating? Are YOU as good and attentive a lover, husband, an emotional support, financial partner as you were when you first married her or before?
If you truly think you have the same good virtues that attracted her in the first place, give it a whirl. Just make sure you've hired the best damn divorce attorney before you do.
2006-11-25 13:10:11 · answer #7 · answered by L R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my understanding of fraud is that there is an intention to deceive. in your story, it doesn't sound to be the case - more like a woman getting comfortable around her husband since husbands are supposed to love you for who you are inside and out.
2006-11-25 13:19:36 · answer #8 · answered by Bubuchachum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's called being shallow and loving a woman only for how she looks. Nice try, but you won't get anywhere in court.
2006-11-25 13:06:04 · answer #9 · answered by aimeelopez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol first whats everyone in America being sue happy but ask a lawyer
2006-11-25 13:03:47 · answer #10 · answered by heroforyou69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋