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I usually masturbate once a day.. a lot of times more than once a day. But I'm saving my "juices" so I can get erect when I'm with a girl.. but it's driving me crazy. I'm scared if I masturbate I won't be able to get an erection around a girl. Plus I'm probably desensitized by porn

2006-11-25 12:58:02 · 17 answers · asked by feelinfree408 1 in Health Men's Health

I'm 26.. kinda past puberty.

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2006-11-25 13:02:38 · update #1

17 answers

I see nothing wrong with once a day and it is pointless saving your "juices" your testicles are making new "juices all the time.Use it or lose it.

2006-11-25 13:24:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

I don't know about every day, but I do know that it is normal to masturbate regularly. I would not consider once a day to be excessive. I used to masturbate 1 - 3 times a day (now it is about 1 - 3 times a week) and had no ill effect on any of my relationships. I never had to worry about getting an erection when I wanted one. Don't worry about saving your juices because your body will usually produce more than you will ever be able to use. Looking at excessive porn can be a negative if you are in a relationship, but it really depends on the type of relationship too. I know a couple that look at porn together as it helps to arouse both of them and they are very happily married. If you feel as though you are being desensitized by too much porn, then maybe you should seek some type of professional counseling. Only you can know where you are at on that personal of a level. Best of luck to you.

2006-11-25 15:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by mikestudster 4 · 0 2

Masturbation is common on a daily basis and some men and boys masturbate more than once. This is normal because of their individual libido. Regarding intercourse, after masturbation while you may climax, the amount of ejaculate will be less and the desire for sex is reduced but neither will prevent sex. Some males can climax within minutes after ejaculating the first time. Sexual pressure is not to be denied but until you have a regular sex partner, masturbation is the main relief. An erection is not based on the amount of sperm but of visual and tactile stimulus, so even if you have just ejaculated, you can become aroused in a short time. About the pornography, many men (and women too) fantasize while they are having sex with their partners, so it is unlikely you have become desensitized. Many of the various races of people have such a strong sexual drive that masturbation is used as many as ten times a day but this does not prevent them from having normal intercourse when the opportunity presents itself.

2006-11-25 13:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by Frank 6 · 0 1

Well, I am sure that there are lots of guys that do it once a day. I know that it is a lot better than you going out and sleeping with a hooker or something. I don't think you should have any troubles with the once a day thing, 3 times a day though is a little excessive.

2006-11-25 14:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by day dreamin baby 5 · 0 1

I like the answer "use it or lose it" in this context. It's true: studies show that usually men who have the most orgasms when they are young, have most orgasms as they get older in corresponding age groups.

Once to three times a day for a 26-year-old is totally normal. But it's also true that the more you do it and the more stimulation you apply (mechanically and visually etc.), the less sensitive you become - temporarily. I would suggest not stopping it but reducing before you plan to engage in a mutual sexual activity. If you are like most men and have the best orgasms during intercourse, it's worth doing it less by yourself!!!

2006-11-25 13:43:49 · answer #5 · answered by Nick 2 · 0 2

Hey buddy, I do it at least once a day weather I'm deployed or not. I like saving my juices only cause of the punch you get when the real deal hits ya. Keep on keepin on is what I say. Nothing wrong with beating it like it owes you money, thats what I do. Take it easy man.

2006-11-25 13:47:27 · answer #6 · answered by staylow_311 1 · 0 2

just enjoy yourself

if you are anything like me, and it sounds like you are, you will make plenty of those juices.

I've been doin it once to three times a day , without even missing many days unless I'm really busy or something.

Maybe twice in my life I couldn't get it up when I wanted to.

I'm 43.

Watch good healthy happy porn if you can find it.

2006-11-25 13:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 2

Well you should wait and do it every 3 days, so that you can unload it when you do your lady! I've never masturbated in my life, honestly, I lost my virginity when I was twelve, and I've only had sex w/ like 3 girls, w/ my last gf, I'd do it like every week, we were together for like 3 years, and w/ my newest g/f I only lasted like 4 months, and we had sex like 3 times, always three,lol, right now I'm sleeping w/ a friend from school but we're not in a relationship just **** buddies!

2006-11-25 13:38:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

I think once a day is too much, for me. It varies among individuals. "Saving juices" won't help you.
I would suggest cutting back on the porn, your expectations could become unreal for the average woman.

2006-11-25 13:12:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

Well masturbating everyday wont change your abilty to get an erection but it will cut down on the juices unless you do it less often

2006-11-25 16:06:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

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