I have been together with him for 3 years, and my friends!!!! All this is happening at once!!! I need serious help!!!!!
2006-11-25 12:54:03 · 8 answers · asked by actingqueen100 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am sorry to see you in this situation. Is one of your parents staying in the same place you currently live? If you have a good relationship with your parents sit them both down and explain to them honestly what this is doing to you. Children seldom factor in the decisions of their parents especially during a divorce. Your mom and dad are going through an extremely tough emotional and volatile time. They will not have a clear understanding of what this is doing to you, so it's important that you let them know. At your age you are in the time of self discovery of who you are going to be as a person and this is a highly charged adult situation you find yourself caught up in. It's important that both of your parents understand what this is doing to you, Talk to them openly and honestly, approach it as the most important issue in your life, because it is.
Good luck, I wish you all the best and I hope everything works out.
2006-11-25 13:10:22 · answer #1 · answered by nmp948 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to move away? Both parents are moving away? Stay with the parent that is staying closest to your friends and family. Remember they are getting the divorce. Do not allow your custodial parent keep you away from the other parent. Do not allow the custodial parent drive the other parent out of your life. Most 10-13 year olds do not have serious bf's. I have a feeling your home life has not been good for a long time and that is why you felt the need to bond outside your family. Sorry you have such childish parents that are only concerned about themselves.
2006-11-25 21:16:50 · answer #2 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax ! Things will be all right !!
People move around all the time. 99% of the girls never marry their boyfriend found at age 13. You will meet lot of new and exciting friends in the future.
Your mom and dad will always be your mom and dad, even if they get a divorce. If they can not get along, you also do not want to live in a loveless household.
Things will be rough for a while when the sun sets. But there will be a bright sunrise tomorrow!
2006-11-26 00:02:03 · answer #3 · answered by ken88dorset 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard of Dawson Mc Allister?Try DMLIVE.com..I have a fourteen year old daughter and a ten year old daughter....My wife and I have been through some really ugly struggles and I think It hurt our girls the worst of all.I am praying that God will show up in your life now and give you the peace that in TIME this will work out ..I am sure you know it will not be easy,remember God loves you!!This problem is NOT your fault you will get through it.
I believe in you........You Can Do it!!!God Bless you.....I will be praying for you ..You are a Queen in God's eyes...
2006-11-25 21:17:14 · answer #4 · answered by compused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your situation sucks, i wish i could give you the golden answer, but the real is all you can do is ride it out..you cant fix your parents, you cant do anything at the momment, unfortunatly... do you have a grandma you can stay with till they get straigtened out? keep the boyfriend, youll need someone to talk to... dont bottle stuff up... its not your fault, you cant fix it, just know it will be bad for a few, but it will get better, i promise... just dont loose your own mind...
2006-11-25 20:58:51 · answer #5 · answered by s p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you honestly think you guys are Topanga and Cory, then try to live with someone that is close to your boyfriend and friends
2006-11-26 20:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're thirteen and you've had a bf for 3 years??? what exactly is the point of having a bf when you're ten?? what do you do watch barney and friends together??? move on. you'll have many other bfs.
2006-11-25 21:08:22 · answer #7 · answered by cali grl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are 13 you will have hundreds of boyfriends and friends before you are 20 relax you will be fine
2006-11-25 20:58:59 · answer #8 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋