do guys like girls who r big built?

Question

i know they usualy like the skinny and sexy but what about big built ppl

u see iam 13 and like that iam not fat but not skinny with big bones!!.....

iam trying to get this guy to liek me he doesnt know i like him couse he doesnt know me or what i look like all he knows is theres a girl that likes him..lol thank god my friend wont tell him who it is yet..teehee..lol anyways

hes tall skinny he has hair in his face and wears a black sweat shirt everyday anyways i guess hes a skater anyways

iam scared he wont go out with me because iam bigger than most girls bone wise not fat..lol

what should i do and i knwo what ur gonna say if he doesnt liek me for who aim its not worth it but...i need to know what to wear and stuff what i wear basicly everyday is my marching band sweat shirt and jeans..lol

omfg iam not fat u can look at my stomich and its not flabby nothing oon me is flabby ok god u guys r making me wanna eat salids for the next 100000 years
because iam not flabby my doctar even said when i was born ill always be the way iam not matter what i do ok

Answer 1

i think that you should ask him out it is worth a try anyway he might like you back you will never know unless you ask

Answer 2

There are three types of body frames, small, medium and large. Of course there are people who are a mixture of two of these types, like medium-small for instance. It's true there are people who are big boned (large frame) and are not fat but it's also true there are a lot of people who are fat and say they're big boned (even if they're not) as an excuse. There's an easy way to find out one's frame size. Just use your thumb an middle finger to form a circle around your wrist, if the fingers don't touch then you have a large frame, if they touch then it's a medium frame, if they overlap it's a small frame.
Now, from what I've observed large frames are highly underrated, people think it makes them look fat (which is why it's used as an excuse by people who are truly fat) when in fact it doesn't. Just think about it this way, a 5'7'' person with a large frame will have a larger body area than a 5'7'' person with a small frame, right? Now imagine they weigh the same thing and have the same amount of muscle and body fat. Who do you think will look thinner? The person with the large frame. Why? Because that person has the same amount of "material" as the person with the small frame but has a larger area to cover. The bones of the person with the large frame wil be sticking out far more than those of the person with the small frame, and her body will be covered by a thinner layer of "material". This is the same reason why a lot of small framed people look thin when in reality they're not, they're the so-called skinny-fat people. They look thin because they're small boned but in reality they're not all that thin.

Personally I think being big boned is great (I'm not), how I wish I had the type of broad shoulders large boned people usually do. If you really aren't fat then you have nothing to be ashamed of, actually you should flaunt it. Wear clothes that reveal your shoulders and/or arms, clothes that hug your body without being too tight (too tight will just look sleazy). Jeans are always a good choice (especially if combined with boots or high-heeled shoes) but if your hips are too big be careful with your choices, some will look better than others. If your legs aren't short and/or fat then short skirts and knee-high boots are a great option. But remember, always try to combine clothes in an elegant way, you don't want to look cheap especially 'cause you're only 13.

Anyway, if you like him go for it but if he doesn't like you don't blame it on your frame, there are many reasons why he might not like you, the most likely of them all is because of no reason at all, because he simply didn't feel a spark in his heart.

Answer 3

Personally I like short petite girls, but that is just my opinion. One thing I can tell is that if you are wearing the same outfit everyday or almost everyday you won't attract any guys cause that is just disgusting. Makes him think that either you are to dirty or lazy to change into something else. And the previous person was right when she said there is no such thing as big boned. Set a goal for weight loss and get out there and get at it. You will look better and feel better.

Answer 4

you see yes most guys like skinny preppy and popular who play sports or in to that kind of stuff ext. and i know we have all thought that yes guys are dumb and dont even care and that is true about some of them well the ones who are looking from the outside intead of the inside a guy shouldnt look at you from the outside they should look at you from the inside they shouldnt care about your looks they should care about who you are and if they dont forget them because trust me i am a person whos not skinny and not fat i am an average person and yes one of these day you will find the right guy out there for you a perfect match because trust me im still waiting and yes i am also the kind of person who wears a hoody and jeans im not into the whole looking like every one else type of thing

Answer 5

Well if you really want to impress him, try something new. If you don't like it, then go back to the old you or try something else. Maybe nothing else suits you, then your better off with someone who likes you for who you are. If the new way does suit you, then there you go. Talk to him and try to become friends. It doesn't help if you just think about him and what to do if he doesn't even know you exist. So if I were you try something new and if you don't like it be yourself.

Answer 6

I can't tell you a guy's opinion, but I like girls who aren't skinny.

And yes, there is such a thing as "big-boned". Some people have bigger frames than others.

Answer 7

Well if you are stronger than them people might think well the boyfriend is pretty weak which is quite embarrassing to the guy unless if he doesn't mid. It really depends on his personality. Try to find out if the guy likes girls stronger girls than him.

Answer 8

guys usually dont like gurl how are strong build because they want to be the one in controll and they thing the gurl shouldnt be so strong but some guys like strong build women .but if a guy doesnt like u for how u are he isnt right for u.

Answer 9

just wear something cute and i dont think guys like girls that are really skinny(they dont have curves!) so you shouldn't worry that you are fat.

Answer 10

It all depends on the guy and his preferences!