I used to ask myself the same question, but I stopped, because I realized that I'd stop at nothing to figure out the answer, which means I'd defeat the purpose of asking in the first place.
You see, some of us like to be over-achievers because we were, in some way, under-appreciated. Simply let yourself go, and be you.
We don't have to be the best at everything, as long as we're good at something.
Even if the only thing we're good at is being bad.
2006-11-25 13:02:06
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answer #1
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answered by aqua_girl24 2
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This is a problem I wish I had. I am forcing my self to find my personal best in everything I do and trust me I'm a lot older than you.Right now you are in high school, so your slate is pretty much clean,. I don't know if you started working yet but let me give you a hint on somthing. When you enter the work force, look for an opportunity not a job . I am not suggesting that you do this but I found an opportunity with a financial services company and it's a chance to build a business with in the company.
I help people out of debt and get them on track for financial freedom and also recruit to build my business. there is a 6-7 figure income opportunity here and the people that do make it are the ones who over achieve. I do well but it's a struggle . I don't know if this is at all important to you but you can choose to focus on being frustated or you can get excited and focus on building your future and have an empire while your friends in a few years are 25 at home playing video games.I don't know if I opned a door for you but I sure hope I put you in front of one.
2006-11-25 13:15:30
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answered by Anonymous
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I was and still am an over achiever because I wasted so much time in my life. In high school, I got terrible grades and didn't participate in any clubs. Soon I figured out that I was going no where fast so I got my act together in college. I got in a lot of clubs, won several speech competitions, National Honor Society and National Dean's List. My grades were good and my parents were proud. I finally knew what it was like to be better than someone else and it felt good. I do know that it is not nice to look down on people because if you think about it, there is always someone in the world who is better than you or smarter than you.
I didn't discover I could sing until college. It gets me a lot of attention and compliments, but of course there are others who can sing me under the table. So I try to remain humble, remembering that my gifts and talents come from God and they are there to help and encourage others.
2006-11-25 13:08:39
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answered by Sam M 3
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If you desire to you will. It is a projection from your care givers be be that which they could not achieve for themselves . It is a form of self judgement and self abuse. there needs to be an allowing of self to be all that it can be without persecution. There is no such thing as perfection in all of creation. If there was nothing would chance. The only constant in all of creation is change. Constant improvement is admirable yet not required. When we judge others we are judging our selves. that is why your enemy is your best friend they are showing that which you least like about yourself so you can heal yourself. All of this world is an illusion in a time and space that is of nonexistence. Are you dreaming the dream of dreaming? Feel the Truth of this and call me in a millennium.
2006-11-25 13:01:25
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answered by iamonetruth 3
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Why does that bother you. I wish I had the drive to work that hard but I get bored any more. I know what you mean by people not giving it there all and it annoys me sometimes too. If ya feel like talking IM me at smilefake_withlust. Keep working hard just make sure that you keep time for regular life. Wish ya the best.
2006-11-25 12:52:31
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answered by Nilly 2
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relies upon on what do you decide on extra effective: being respected by your professors and superiors, or being enjoyed by your fellow scholars. If it particularly is the scholars, you're extra effective off scaling decrease back somewhat, yet it particularly is recommended to tell the professors first, because of the fact they DO understand you are able to've completed extra effective. If it particularly is the professors: tell them scholars it particularly is the way you're. in the event that they do no longer like it, do no longer worry you. straightforward as that. you're who you're. you merely can no longer exchange just to make some others such as you in the event that they did no longer such as you somewhat from the beginning up.
2016-10-04 09:03:15
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answered by ? 4
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Your habit is not stupid. It will take you far. Work hard at what you love and you'll be set for life.
2006-11-25 12:59:57
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answered by athena 1
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be an achiever, but not an overachiever. Chill.
2006-11-25 13:06:33
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answered by Anonymous
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I certainly hope not. Would you like to marry one of my kids?
(JK)
2006-11-25 12:54:43
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answered by thisbrit 7
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because you don't have a girlfriend get a girlfriend now.
2006-11-25 12:53:04
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answered by Anonymous
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