I am loosing a person that's very dear to me, and the pain that I'm feeling is unbearable. That person prefers not to talk to me for a reason that she says one day she would tell me. She also says that I shouldn't suffer because she doesn't deserve me... But I know that that person loves me. Why would she want to get away from me? I am suffering very much.
2006-11-25 12:45:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all, I'm sorry for the pain you're experiencing. Second of all, I personally would ask this person WHY they are doing this to you...you deserve to know, and no offense, but saying that she doesn't deserve you anyway or that one day she'll tell you, that's just a cop out. I would point blank ask her what you did wrong, tell her that you feel she at least owes you an explanation. If she still won't, then the only thing that will help is time. I know that's probably not the answer you want, but it takes time to heal after losing someone. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-11-25 12:48:54 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. MP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i understand that you are hurt but understnads that she has her reasons. If she truly loves you then its not just becasue she wants to but because she has to for herself and her heart or yours. Respect that and know that one day you will know why your heart hurst so much but dont live in pain that can come in the blink of an eye and take your world away but live life to the fullest with every step even if you have to cry the whole way.
2006-11-25 20:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by Niko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your pain but maybe she doesn't want you around because she doesn't want you to suffer. See if you can talk to her about it and try to spend as much quality time with her that you can if she is willing. Good luck.
2006-11-25 20:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like and this is only my opinion that she may be suffering from guilt feeling over something she may have done to you.....apparently, it sounds like you have not clue to what it may be....Go to her and tell her how much you care, tell her what ever may of happened does not matter to you, tell her you do not want to know what it is, that in your true heart of hearts all is forgiven.....Tell her you love her......and then let God take care of the rest.....
2006-11-25 20:53:31 · answer #4 · answered by txflowerblossom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's trying to let you down easy. She doesn't want to hurt you. But she is letting go of your relationship. The best thing you can do is to move on. Good Luck
2006-11-25 20:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly. love yourself more than that hun, u are # 1 u are better than that..
2006-11-25 20:49:47 · answer #6 · answered by trimmansgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you know is not a fact, what she is doing, is the fact. forget her.
2006-11-25 20:51:24 · answer #7 · answered by loveboy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋