I'm a 16 year old male and I get turned on when I think about another man spitting on me, urinating on me, and abusing me.Why does this turn me on?
This is a serious question.
2006-11-25 12:41:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Do you remember your childhood? How far back can you remember? Have you sought counselling for abuse. 92% of the worlds population has been abused and the majority do not remember due to th shock or denial. This a case of re-acting to a wounded past coming forward to be healed.
2006-11-25 12:46:47 · answer #1 · answered by iamonetruth 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Who knows? I don't mean to be pithy. Human sexuality is an incredibly complicated thing, and it's generally hard to figure out where attraction or arousal is coming from. It sounds like you get off on power plays of one form. That's really common in our culture. In a lot of ways, we relate power and sex. In fact, for women, rape/ravishment fantasies are probably one of the most common, if not the most common.
You really are not alone in your desires. As long as you are enacting your fantasies in a safe environment, with a person you can trust and using things like safe words, there's no harm in it. Actually, the whole BDSM scene is getting positively trendy right now.
2006-11-25 12:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by random6x7 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are probably someone into BDSM. Just be very careful
2006-11-25 15:26:48 · answer #3 · answered by Just Dance 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋