I've been sad for, quite some time now. I'm 15 years old and I felt like I found the love of my life but I broke his heart and then we got back together but then we got back together and after a while he let me go...and I feel so depressed...I cant eat, sleep, all I do is cry and it feels like I lost the most important person in my life...I wasnt even this bad off when I lost my grandfather. I dont know what to do...is this really depression, Thats what my school conslor is telling me. she says im going threw depression but...i think shes wrong..is she right? what should I do? do i need to tell my parents what is going on?
2006-11-25 12:32:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You could be depressed. It's nothing to be embarrassed about. If you cry alot, and don't get joy from things you liked before, it could be. Why do you think she is wrong?
Life is too short to feel so sad. It might help you to be open minded about depression. You have a computer - get more information, help yourself as much as you can.
Your school counselor is probably concerned about you. You can talk to your parents if you feel comfortable with that. If you don't go do a teacher, friends mom, or other adult you can trust.
I have been depressed in my life, and it is so easily treated. I should never have suffered as long as I did. There's counselling, and or medications that can help tremendously. Please don't give up.
I always remember life is too short, and I don't want to feel so sad. Please help yourself so you can be a happy and content person.
God Bless
2006-11-25 12:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by Maggie Mae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl that's not a dumb question. There's no such thing as a dumb question. I just think that u have a broken heart girl. It takes time. If nothing and I mean NOTHING. Get's your interest anymore. Along with your other sings then yes it's depression. But if your ex would call u, BOOM you'd be right up on it. So that tells me it's not depression. I would tell ur folks though. Keep them in the know. They might be thinking the worst. Depression, Drugs? Don't worry girl, time is all that can heal a broken heart. You'll find someone new and you will look back and laugh. Trust me!
2006-11-25 20:48:59 · answer #2 · answered by Blondie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you are going through depression, and it is normal after someone whom you care about so much breaks up with you. I know you said that you think he's the love of your life, but your only 15 and you are going to meet a lot more guys and have a lot more boyfriends until you really see who you really love. I suggest that you do your best to try and forget about him, I know it's hard, but it has to be done.
You won't get anywhere by crying about the guy. No guy is worth your tears, just remember that! If you feel like you can talk to your parents, then tell them how you feel, if not, talk to your closest friend, someone you can really trust and tell them how your feeling, so that way they can help you take all the burden off your shoulders.
When you start to feel better, try and keep a good relationship with the guy who broke up with you, if you care about him that much, but whatever you do, don't hate him... that will only make things worse.
2006-11-25 20:49:13 · answer #3 · answered by Bubbly me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Lace,
You are grieving a loss. This is normal AND healthy. People grieve differently. In order for us to get to the other side of the pain we MUST go through it. In this way we deal with it completely and at some point are able to put the pain behind us and move on in our lives. This is a typical pattern for grieveing if there is one:
1. Denial.
2. Acknowledgement.
3. Pain, saddness.
4. Growing anger.
5. Diminshing anger.
6. Resolution, peacefullness, renewed happiness.
Hang in there Lace, at some point you will be able to look back on this experience and have some lessons that you learned from it. The pain actually ends up making us better people because of what we learn from it.
Good luck.
2006-11-25 20:48:02 · answer #4 · answered by Bullwinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens. Some people seem like they go through life without ever missing a beat...but I think it happens to all of us. I think we all have a point in our lives when we feel like we can't go on. If not all of us...most of us.
But we pull through, and are stronger for it.
It's hard to think, that you're not alone. To think that it happens...that life will move on...but it will. Trust me, or at least trust in yourself. You are stronger than you can ever know.
Just take some time to think about things. Write down all your problems, everything that bothers you, big and small. Go outside and just breathe, and try to remember what you have. How much worse it could be.
And remember, above all, that things will get better.
Good luck, and may you find joy.
2006-11-25 21:46:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, life goes on. at 15 u wont find the love of ur life, hell at 20 u wont find the love of ur life, maybe at 27-35 u might. ur too young to feel like crap. go out n do things for u. maybe see a theropist and maybe get on some meds. see if it helps. maybe talk to one of ur parents if u think it will help
2006-11-25 20:42:22 · answer #6 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋